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 East Village Boy of the Week, Pablo
Posted 6/21/2009 at 1:35 PM
This week’s Boy of the Week is Pablo, from New York
Shot for EVB by Jason Rodgers

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 Looking for Mr. Good Dick

Posted 6/21/2009 at 12:39 PM by  R.P. Andrews

Why are so may of us so promiscuous, think we are, or would like to be? Why can’t we just be happy with that one guy?  After all, no one – not even our egotistical selves – is perfect.  But I guess that’s the problem. We think that that next guy – read dick - in the bar, on line, at the sex club or bath house or off the plane or at that next Bearfest in Seattle or Leatherfest in Berlin or RSVP cruise to Greece will be the dick of our wet dreams. Always on the hunt, we are never really satisfied and so our insatiable search goes on infinitum. Like Bette Davis once quipped in one of her early films, “I’d let you kiss me, but I just washed my hair.” What the fuck was she waiting for?

 

Why are we so obsessed about dick? Maybe it’s because men and their cocks come in so many shapes and sizes (small, big, thin, thick, cut, uncut) that the possible Las Vegas slot machine combinations between the type of guy we’re hardwired for and their dick are endless and we remain constantly curious to see what IT’s like and what IT will do for us. And that often means going beyond our usual circles of bars or local hang outs and out into the world like some sexual explorer, dropping all that money that could be going into a CD or retirement account on trips, botox, liposuction or Lumineers or killing ourselves at the gym, all just to look good when that ultimate dick might be right next door if we opened our eyes.

 

But I think deep down inside it isn’t about cock at all although we may fool ourselves into thinking it is. Because saying it’s just cock eliminates that other c word: commitment. No, what we’re really after, what we’re really searching for is an affinity with another being besides our dog. Someone who will want us not just for, or in spite of what we do in the bedroom, because of, or in spite all our shortcomings – and theirs. But because many of us are unrealistic about what we expect in another person (It’s gotta be the 411 Magazine cover or no one even if I’m 300 pounds), or because maybe we really don’t want commitment in the first place and prefer just being run-around Sues the rest of our lives thinking old age happens to other people, the search goes on. And on. And on. The 10’s are looking for 13’s, the 4’s will only settle for 10’s and the 7’s are ready to go straight.

 
 But Will it Fit?
Posted 6/8/2009 at 9:45 AM by  R.P. Andrews

Q: I was at the Steve Cruz show at Noche Latina Fridays a few weeks ago and now I can't get enough of him. I've spent about $700 on pay per view and bought six movies and three magazines at Tropixxx Video. What can I do to end this obsession? 

A: Get a 60 inch plasma TV and run Stevie’s videos 24/7. Trust me – you’ll be ready for Asian meat in 2 weeks. Plus you’ll make a lot of new friends who have either been peeping through your window to see what all that moaning is about or, more likely, ready to knock down your door to pull your TV off the wall and shove it up your ass.

 
 Fur Filled Fun?
Posted 6/8/2009 at 9:39 AM by  R.P. Andrews

Q: How do I tell my boyfriend I don't like to eat his ass out because it's too hairy. He'll never shave it and he loves to get rimmed, but I end up with a fur filled mouth. 

A: Stop bitching and get yourself a deluxe water pik and a pack of  those new handy mini-flossers – they great. Plus, be thankful that’s all you’re picking out of your teeth.

 
 
 Ginger and Spice
Posted 6/8/2009 at 9:35 AM

 

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One might imagine this stunning specimen of ginger hotness might just be enough to perhaps raise the temperature a couple more degrees or so.. Introducing 22 year-old gorgeous model Sean D.

There are lots more photos for you Red Head lovers out there of Sean to peruse using this link Sean D at Just Beautiful Men Blog, Model Sean D.
 

 
 
 Nude Shines
Posted 6/5/2009 at 3:54 PM
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 Lady GaGa Paparazzi Video
Posted 5/31/2009 at 3:54 PM
 
 
 Flavor Of The Week: The Porn Ultimatum
Posted 5/31/2009 at 3:40 PM
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What do you wear to a porn shoot? After a little consideration, I went for the “doofus hipster” shirt, black jeans and black Converse. It seemed appropriate enough for a Burning Angel set. Inexplicably, I decided to wear a ring. Then I realized I was thinking like I was dressing for a date. I wanted Joanna Angel to think I was cool.

Freelance journalists end up with lots of contacts, and sometimes you don’t even know where they came from. Somehow, despite the fact that I’d never written about the porn industry, I ended up on the list of a PR guy who represented producers of adult entertainment. When he sent me an email inviting me to a Burning Angel shoot, I didn’t know what I’d do with the story, but I quickly accepted... Continued after the Jump, Flavor Of The Week: The Porn Ultimatum

 
 East Village Boy of the Week, Ruben
Posted 5/31/2009 at 3:31 PM
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This week’s East Village Boy of the Week is Ruben, from Sint-Truiden, Belgium Photographed and animated for EVB by Yves De Brabander Lots more photos, mostly NSFW, after the Jump, East Village Boy, Ruben

 
 There Is Still A Civil Rights Struggle in America.
Posted 5/29/2009 at 9:31 AM
Every time I think of Proposition 8 I can’t help but think about the ’70s in San Francisco. Back to the White Night Riots and the assassination of Harvey Milk. Not just because of the recent major motion picture, or seeing Dustin Lance Black’s cute ass win an Oscar. Harvey Milk was kind of big deal well before Mr. Van Sant ever came to town. Thank Maria for them, though, because mainstream America needs to see what we’re capable of when we put our minds and our hearts together. I can’t help but think that they banded together without... continued after the Jump, Where's the Outrage?
 
 Mob Mentality
Posted 5/29/2009 at 9:31 AM
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Fin was only 21 when he first fantasized about it; then, a month later, he took the leap.

"I read about it in a local listings magazine. I was nervous as hell. I hardly ever left my sleepy suburb for the city, but on the day I did, I went into an adult video store, flipped through this zine and, boom, there was a listing for a sex party," he said in a low voice over the phone.

"Can you hear me?" he asked, "My mom and dad are in the next room, and I'd be in so much trouble if they overheard me telling you this," he told me.

"I stuffed the free magazine in the inside pocket of my leather jacket and darted out into the rainy day, then to the subway for the bus station. On the bus back home, I leaned my head against the window, hornier than I'd ever been..." Continue reading after the Jump, Swung, Mob Mentality

 
 Sexy Male Swimsuit Model- Tim Robards
Posted 5/29/2009 at 9:31 AM
One of the sexiest male swimsuit models on the planet is probably Tim Robards. 26-year-old male model Tim Robards is one of the well-known faces of the AussieBum swim line. He's done work in commercials as well as movies. Tim goes to the gym and plays touch football three or four times per week, as well as running, swimming and surfing. This 6'2" muscle-bound beach body hunk, is not only a model but personal trainer as well. More photos and profile after the Jump, Sexy Male Swimsuit Model- Tim Robards
 

 Moments In Hotel Room With Deny Barrosa

Posted 5/29/2009 at 9:31 AM

There are lots more photos in this set by South American Photographer Didio.

Deny Barosa is a mix of Italian and Japonaise.

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 Mirror, Mirror on the Wall: Part II
Posted 5/24/2009 at 11:20 AM by  R.P. Andrews
Editors note: This is part II of an article posted on 5/20/09. The first part is here: Mirror, Mirror on the Wall Part I

I didn’t think much about my upcoming encounter with Ponce de Leon’s Fountain of Youth until the day before my appointment for my procedure when suddenly visions of all those horror movies from the thirties rushed into my brain. What if something went wrong and I ended up worst than I started? Shouldn’t I thank my lucky stars I looked younger than my years and not tempt fate? No matter what they did, I’d never look 25 again – nor did I want to.  

I was ready to whip out my cell phone and cancel the appointment all the way that morning to the surgeon but walked into my role as if it were all happening to some one else. I actually waited in the private room longer than it took to do the whole procedure which, unlike my collagen episode, was performed by a real live plastic surgeon, a pleasant sort of a guy, very patient and understanding, explaining every step of the way as he poked at my face. How with men, killing too much brow line looks ridiculous, so only half strength Botox was used there. After that, he moved on with the Juvaderm for those sags. .Just a few pinches and it was over.  

Both my consultant and the doctor explained that the Botox would take a few days to show its full effect, but that the results of the Juvaderm were immediate. So was the slight bruising and swelling on my face from all that prodding which took a good week to disappear. (Thank God for large framed glasses.) But I have to admit I was pleased with the results the moment I walked into the bathroom at home and stared at myself coldly for the first time since leaving the surgeon. I had fought off looking into the rear view mirror the whole way. Those fine lines were almost gone and my eyes definitely looked refreshed and without all that “Sudden Change” I had been using by the quart the last few years.  

Since I don’t know many people in Lauderdale well (even after living here 6 years, but that’s material for another blog), there was no one to give me some indication that all this had been worth it. Nor was I snaring any better quality tricks than I had had before my little procedure. No, the validation of sorts came a few months later when I flew back to New York for my nephew’s wedding, and my sister, five years my junior, upon seeing me for the first time in almost a year, exclaimed, “Shit you don’t look a  day over 50!”  

Send your comments – and hate mail – to me directly at rpandrews@bellsouth.net.

 
 East Village Boy of the Week JC
Posted 5/22/2009 at 11:55 AM
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This week’s East Village Boy of the Week is JC, from Brooklyn Photographed for EVB by Richard Welch. To view lots more photos of the gorgeous JC, use this link East Village Boy of the Week JC

 
Buffet Boys Back for More!
Posted 5/22/2009 at 11:47 AM

Q:  I wrote to you last month about the buffet in bed and now I have another question, it's kind of messy. Do you know where we can get sheets that will clean easy? I don't want to sleep on rubber sheets for the rest of my life. 

A: Fuck your traditional mattress – just move your lovemaking from the bedroom to the garage or better yet here in Florida to your outdoor patio and get one of those inflatable beds you can hose down afterwards. Or move it into the bathroom and use the inflatable for the main event after you’ve had your foreplay in the tub.  Even better, buy a used refrigerator, lay it on its back and eat your stuff fresh!

 
 That Grey Lady
Posted 5/22/2009 at 11:46 AM
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Sasha Grey is not your typical porn star—not that there's anything wrong with that most adult of trades. She's a Godard buff. She says crazy stuff during sex scenes to mess with her co-stars. And she's got the lead role in Steven Soderbergh's new film The Girlfriend Experience, a verité-style portrait of an upscale Manhattan call girl.

A couple years ago, you caused a bit of a stir when you appeared on "The Tyra Banks Show." She told you that you needed to do some "soul-searching."

Interview sat down with the 22-year-old California native to discuss her generation of adult-film actresses (not all victims, not all idiots) and why she'd like porn to look more like the movies that play at Cannes. Continued after the Jump, That Grey Lady

 

 Super Sexy Chris Pine is out of this world!

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If you have not seen the new Star Trek movie yet, all I have to say is, what are you waiting for?? If not for the amazing and brilliant writing, or edge of your seat special effects, go see it for the super sexy space hunk Chris Pine! Many of you have probably not heard of Chris before, but for those of you who already know him, you know that he is one great actor, who just happens to be jaw-droppingly sexy. LOts more photos after the Jump, Super Sexy Chris Pine is out of this world!

 
 Real Housewives of New York Reunion Animated Spoof
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 Abstinence, Birth Control, and the Difference between Theory and Practice
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So how effective — really — is abstinence as a birth control method?

Bristol Palin, Sarah Palin’s famously “unmarried and pregnant at 17 and an unmarried mother at 18″ daughter, recently went on a tour of the TV talk shows, advocating — in an irony so massive I feel puny standing next to it — abstinence for teenagers.

And one of the arguments she made — with her baby on her lap — was that abstinence is the only 100% effective way to prevent pregnancy.

Now, if Bristol Palin, or anyone else, had gone on the TV talk show circuit arguing that, say, birth control pills were the only 100% effective way to prevent pregnancy — and they’d done so with their unplanned baby on their lap — they’d have been laughed off the stage. But people tend to see abstinence as... Continue reading after the Jump, Abstinence, Birth Control, and the Difference between Theory and Practice

 
 Mirror, Mirror On the Wall: Part I
Posted 5/20/2009 at 11:20 AM by  R.P. Andrews

No bullshit. I’m taken for ten, fifteen years younger than my driver’s license tells me so, even by people I’ve known for years, and I ain’t complaining. I didn’t over-party in my twenties and thirties, or do drugs (give me a strong drink over a joint any day), and I guess a good gene pool was also on my side. When my very happily married sister had her first baby at 25, the nurses in the hospital mistook her for an unwed teenage mother. 

Still, I wish I had all my predecessors’ good fortune like my grandmother on my dad’s side who had three gray hairs in her head when she died at 86. Unfortunately, I’m the first one out there when Walgreen’s or CVS runs a sale on Just for Men. Funny how all the medium browns are cleaned out first.  

But vanity of vanities, at 40 I decided to try collagen, then all the rage. Working for a hospital, I made sure I went to a plastic surgeon NOT affiliated with my place, but, in the end, the injections were done by some therapist or second class flunkey. And I was never impressed by the results. 

Fast forward X years. I no longer work professionally full-time and I still get my decent share of men, thank you very much. So the only reason I can give for deciding to give cosmetic surgery another try in these waning days of my gay career was pure vanity.  It wasn’t the buffed, shirtless guy in their ad in a local gay mag that attracted me as much as the “second vial of Botox half off.” I had some extra interest income I could use to pay off one of my credit cards or shoot up my face. I decided on the latter. 

The offices just off the beach were what I expected from as glossy a profession as plastic surgery. My “consultant,” no spring chicken and proud of all the work she had had done on herself, stared at my face intently as I rattled off for her all my petty, childish “needs.” Ah, we’re so honest with people we’ll never meet again. The fine lines around the eyes, the deepening crevices on the forehead, the sagging skin under my eyes. I told her I didn’t want to go under the knife. Could any of these new injectables I kept hearing about – “juva” this and “refresha” that - do the trick? 

She was equally honest – with a smile. She explained that Botox was still the gold standard and would do wonders for the fine lines and brow. (Funny how something that could kill you could also make you look young. The James Dean syndrome I guess.) But there wasn’t much they could do for the bags (which are fat pockets) under the eyes without surgery, though Juvaderm could lift everything up and, at least, lessen the sag. All for $1500 after the discount. The price was right (even if the shit only lasts 6 months to a year) and I was pleasantly surprised to hear there was at least something they could do for those bags. So I scheduled my appointment for the following Thursday.  

Send your comments – and hate mail – to me directly at rpandrews@bellsouth.net.  

Next Time: My Date With Fate

 
 
 Street Art at Guapo Magazine
Posted 5/17/2009 at 9:27 AM
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 Meet Big Brother Brazil Contestant Bruno
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This absolute hunk of Brazilian tattooed goodness is Bruno Spinelli, aka former Big Brother Brazil Season 9 hopeful Bruno Moraes. The twenty nine year old lives and works as a personal trainer in Rio de Janeiro. A soccer and boxing enthusiast, Bruno describes himself as a pretty simple guy, easy to get along with, communicative and happy. He's certainly making me happy ...Meet Big Brother Brazil Contestant Bruno

 
 A Slippery Slope?
Posted 5/17/2009 at 9:09 AM
 
 

 Wet Sensation

As always, Didio brings it with an amazing set of photos of model Victor Bainan.

Wet Sensation

 

 
 
 
 Chase Armitage, Parkour
Posted 5/14/2009 at 11:18 AM
Chase Armitage, Parkour, Free Running and Martial Arts Showreel re released in HD! For more professional Parkour and free running/Stunt/Acro/Martial Arts videos subscribe and visit my personal site, www.chasearmitage.com  also more at www.3run.co.uk 
 
 
 Steve Petronio
Posted 5/13/2009 at 10:58 AM
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With his tattoos, shaved head, and taste for provocation, Stephen Petronio is like your sexy older punk-rock friend, who’s been there, done that, and wants you to know it. For 25 years the choreographer has head-butted the modern dance world with innovative, dark, manic pieces that are frequently sexual (like 1990’s landmark Middlesex Gorge, in which the male dancers wore corsets and were victimized), and his latest piece, I Drink the Air Before Me, at the Joyce Theater in New York through May 3, is just as charged. A meditation on environmental tumult, it commemorates the 53-year-old’s quarter-century of work as head of his eponymous company (before that he was Trisha Brown’s first male dancer) and features a live score by Nico Muhly - performed in part by the Young People’s Chorus of New York City - and a special costume for Petronio designed by longtime friend Cindy Sherman. Who else has this ravishing man worked with? Almost every influencer in music, fashion, and art. I’m humbled (and turned on)... Continued after the Jump, Steve Petronio

 
 Wanda Sykes Skewers Limbaugh, Bush, the Obama's and Joe Biden
Posted 5/12/2009 at 10:13 AM
 
 
 Hard Times
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Mavety Media Group pulled the buttplug on all of their gay magazines—charmingly referred to as "sophisticates" in old-school publishing parlance. Puns aside, I wonder if people will notice what a major development this is in publishing, in gay history and in the porn industry.

The titles affected include Mandate, Torso, Honcho, Inches (and all of its ethnic permutations) and Playguy. The oldest, Mandate, has been continuously published since April of 1975—just over 34 years. It was published originally by George Mavety, an apparently heterosexual man (I say "apparently" only because having known him, I wouldn't put much past him sexually—but his obsession with women is well documented) who was a former Sunday school teacher. Continued after the Jump, Hard Times

 
 Bachelor's Dessert
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We have a standing date every Saturday night. I go out for ice cream with all of the fixings: chocolate sauce, whipped cream, jimmies. Even those little marinated cherries. Grayson stays home and preps the house for us. Dims the lights. Puts on the movie. Starts the fire.

But when I get in line tonight, a man steps behind me. I feel him before I see him, sense his presence out of the corner of my eye. I scan the conveyer belt to see that he has a six-pack, a steak, and a bottle of whiskey. 

“Bachelor’s dinner,” he says motioning to his groceries... Continued after the Jump, Bachelor's Dessert

 
 Remember when this was "Free Gay Porn"
Posted 5/10/2009 at 12:01 PM
Mario Lopez Nip/Tuck
 
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 Bang Bang Boy Thiago Santos
Posted 5/8/2009 at 9:25 PM

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The guys from Fabscout Entertainment brought Bang Bang Boy Thiago Santos to Boardwalk Gay Go-Go Bar and Nightclub in Ft Lauderdale Florida last weekend. Thiago put on a show for a packed house. TO check out more photos from the event, use this link, View Boardwalk Photo Gallery. The check out what's going on at Boardwalk this weekend, use this link, Upcoming Events at Boardwalk

 
 East Village Boy of the Week Javier
Posted 5/8/2009 at 9:25 PM
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This week’s East Village Boy of the Week is Javier, from Barcelona Photographed for EVB by Ignacio Lozano. To view the NSFW photos from this set, use this link, East Village Boy Javier

 
 
 Calgary Hottie, Jared
Posted 5/4/2009 at 12:09 PM
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Jared is another model from Calgary, Canada that  started doing photo shoots just a couple months ago... as such he's still building up his portfolio. But as you can tell from these amazing shots, he's apparently chosen a superb photographer to start out with. These shots were all taken by a young Calgary photographer named Phil.

To view More photos of Jared use this link, Jared on Just Beautiful Men

 
 Mindfuckers Supremo
Posted 5/4/2009 at 11:58 AM by  R.P. Andrews
Editors note: This is part 2 of this subject commentary. To read the first part, use this link:  Mindfuckers Part I

Mindfuckers come in all shapes and sizes on the web, but there should be a special place in Gay Hell (where you’re surrounded by Bible Belt Conservatives spouting Leviticus for enternity) for the Mindfuckers Supremo. Those that show up on schedule for your destined web-arranged  rendezvous, then feign disinterest. Like the one nerd who promised me the blow job of my life. It was a Tuesday night so, what the fuck, why not. The red flag should have gone up in my head when he asked to meet him in the parking lot of a local mall. But I was horny by now. Even as I drove over, I had visions he’d pull away just as pulled up. But no, I got out of my SUV, he got of his and we walked in one another’s direction. He was nerdier than his pix, but a mouth is a mouth, and after all, it was a Tuesday. I outstretched my hand to shake his and introduce myself when he said, “Gee I’m sorry - I don’t think this is going to work out.” 

Not Work Out? Huh?  

My pix are pretty explicit. I am out there like dog shit on a sidewalk. And while I may not be God’s gift to Gaydom, I still turn heads and go to the gym 3X a week. Woody Allen’s younger brother  I ain’t. 

There were some suburban shoppers nearby wheeling their cart of food to their car but I didn’t give a shit. I still went off like a lunatic. 

“You hauled me over and now you’re the one not interested, you nerdy little queen?” 

With that, he ran into his car, locked the door, and swept away. Lucky for me since in another milli-second I would have bashed his head against the door, then regretted it. And by the time I got home, he had blocked me so I couldn’t even tirade into cyberspace. 

Then there was the gym-bod hottie who set up a time, called to say he was on his way, and an hour later was still online where I left him. My knee jerk reaction was to block him, but I didn’t and, believe or not, a week later, the same fuck e’s me. “Got some time later today?” (Yes, this is all true folks!) 

Ah, bestowed with one of those golden opportunities you often don’t get in life, I seized the moment. 

“Listen, last week when you said you were on your way, then never showed, I found you were still online when you were supposed to be at my place. So after giving you an extra half hour, I left for the local sex club where I met a hot humpy couple from Toronto and we fucked the night away. (I actually did meet such a dynamic duo, only not that night.)  So, I guess I have you to thank for that. But please, I don’t need people who waste my time. Your credibility with me is in the sewer. In fact, I’m beginning to wonder if that’s even your pix or are you really some 4’6” horn-rimmed glasses geek.” 

His response to me was just two words .I’m sure you can guess what they were – but those two words spoke volumes. I had caught him at his own game. Then I blocked the fuck. 

The bigger question is what motivates people to play these games. Are they insecure with their own sexuality? Or are they so shit on in their real lives and no-nothing jobs – I can see that buxom boss towering over them at the jewelry counter at Macy’s now – that this is their only way to exert power over others.  

Well, playing amateur psychiatrist ain’t going to help my sex life, so from now on, if someone says they’re on their way, they’re not getting my exact street address until I see their car parked in front of my neighbor’s house. Then let ‘em call me on their cell and I’ll give ‘em the right address.  

After all, 50 mg. of Viagra is a terrible thing to waste.  

Send your comments – and hate mail – to me directly at rpandrews@bellsouth.net.

 

 
 Director/Writer John Waters at the Miami Gay and Lesbian Film Festival
Posted 5/4/2009 at 8:56 AM
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John Waters, director, writer, producer and cinematographer of legendary independent films films including, Hairspray, Pink Flamingos, Desperate Living, Female Trouble, Polyester and Divine takes to the stage at Miami Gay and Lesbian Film Festival and tells the story behind the films and the legend.

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 East Village Boy Of The Week
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This week’s East Village Boy of the Week is Max, from New York Photographed for EVB by Paul Gunn

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 Channing Tatum Is Interviewed
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The story of Channing Tatum seems to reinforce the validity of the spectacular arc of life in movies. Take, for example, this brief rundown of essential plot points so far: He is born in a small town (Cullman, Alabama); he overcomes his early outsider status to become a popular kid (and even winds up playing football); he gets into hip-hop dancing (after seeing a guy do head spins at a local club); he is discovered on the street (by a modeling agent); he gets cast in a critically acclaimed independent film (A Guide to Recognizing Your Saints, 2006); he lands a part in a big studio film (Step Up, 2006); and he is tapped for unmitigated superstardom (at least a lot of people are betting on it). It doesn’t hurt that Tatum is—and, by all accounts, has always been—very good-looking. But watching him onscreen, it’s clear that his face and his good luck aren’t his most important assets... Continued after the Jump, Channing Tatum Interviewed

 
 What's Your Seduction Device?
Posted 4/28/2009 at 11:42 AM
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Living in New York City is like living in a large, crowded yet provocative classroom where you're constantly learning new things about others and more importantly--about yourself. These new discoveries can be looked at as major flaws or in my case, sexy superpowers. Recently, I discovered that we all have a seduction device--and that, my friend was a discovery like no other.

I have a friend who's undergoing a 12-month life coach training program and this past Saturday he invited me to attend a portion of his training where they discussed the art of seduction.

As I understood it, we all have a "seduction device" that draws people into our circle and this is how we... What's Your Seduction Device-

 
 Steve Bug Turns Us On In A Hot DNA Photo Shoot, The Outtakes:
Posted 4/28/2009 at 11:30 AM
 
 
 Chico's Angels With Steven Hill
Posted 4/28/2009 at 9:38 AM
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Sexy hot actor, Steven Hill has just finished filming a guest stars role as “the hunk” on the upcoming web-episodes of “ Chico 's Angels.” Hill was on the 12th season of "Real World: Las Vegas ". Hill has also appeared on "Half & Half", "Passions," and "Drake & Josh"

Chico 's Angels is filming three new web-episodes to premiere this summer in conjunction with their return to the LA stage with Chico's Angels 2: Love Boat Chicas. Chico's Angels has been an underground cult hit with their stage version of the series for the last six years in LA.

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 The Loveable Lochte
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Determined, free-spirited, a fierce competitor, and a talented athlete?...or is it gorgeous, absolutely adorable, a beautiful champion, and a talented Olympian armed with a killer smile?...

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 Perez Hilton: The Foul Face of 'Gay' Activism?
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You may have heard. During Sunday’s Miss USA pageant openly “gay” activist and pageant judge Perez Hilton – the self-styled “Queen of Media” – ambushed Carrie Prejean – the openly Christian Miss California – with a politically loaded question on so-called “same-sex marriage.” Prejean’s candid answer – as both Hilton and Miss USA organizer Donald Trump later admitted – likely cost her the crown.

From the moment she opened her mouth, Prejean has given liberals a clinic in class. Hilton, on the other hand (a.k.a. Mario Armando Lavandeira), has provided the world a sneak peek into the soul of homosexual activism... Continued after the Jump, Perez Hilton: The Foul Face of 'Gay' Activism

 
 
 Wife Swap For Gym Buddy
Posted 4/26/2009 at 9:28 AM by  R.P. Andrews

Q: I’m married married, yep to a woman. She’s a wonderful wife and stay-at-home mom to our three beautiful kids, but as I get older my urges for guys are getting stronger and stronger. Fortunately I have a few buddies at the gym where we play in the sauna when the coast is clear. There’s even an occasional web date on the Q.T. But I’m tired of leading this double life. Should I just tell my wife and get it over with and stop living a lie?

A: Sure, there are a few wives that will understand and even let you play on the side but, buddy, life isn’t a happy ending Logo movie and honesty is not always the best policy. Unless you can read your wife, I wouldn’t say shit. Divorce can be pretty costly particularly if she has no source of income and when there are kids in the picture. You could be cleaned out financially in a New York minute and wouldn’t even be able to afford your gym membership. My advice: keep your secret life just that. Just don’t fall in love, huh, stupid?

 
 Mindfuckers: Part I
Posted 4/26/2009 at 10:24 AM by  R.P. Andrews

(mind’fuck’er) noun: a gay man who comes on to another, leads him into believing he’s interested in copulating, then at the last moment, drops out of sight like he was abducted by aliens. Most prevalent on sex websites where cyberspace provides the perfect cover.    

Naïve, shitty little me.  Tired of the chance encounters in the bars and the baths, and being a logical, pragmatic sort of a guy, I turned to the sex sites figuring that’s where people were meeting. You post who you are and like, they post who they are and like and there’s a match-up. Right?  

Not exactly. Even though I’ll do a periodic sweep like my Spyware program of local listings and put out feelers to guys I think could have a mutual interest, I rarely get any responses. So in the end, you’re left with the universe of guys who happen to be on when you’re on. No better than the bars. That’s why after coming from a night out, I’ll check my e-mail to see who loves me, then go to bed, and, guaranteed, the following morning I’ll have half a dozen hits, 1:45 am, 2: 10 am, 2:30 am from  the “:I want it now boys” – “wanna fuck?” Or better: 

“My back door will be open. The lights will be off. I’ll be butt naked on my sofa. I want you to come over to me, and without saying a word, fuck me til you breed me, then I want you to leave.” 

Romantic, ain’t it?  

But the full trials and tribulations of a cyber sex addict like me – yea, I admit it - would fill a dozen blogs. What I want to talk about now are the above defined “mindfuckers.” They come in several varieties. The low end boys are those who keep sending you those cryptic e-mails, winks or gropes every so often, and when you ask when they’re interested in connecting, you get an evasive “cool.” What the fuck is “cool” supposed to mean? 

But these minor leaguers are just a bore. The group that should have their balls cut off in public at some mall – or better yet a leather bar – are the guys I classify as the Super Mindfuckers. They come on to you big time, (“You sure you don’t model for Colt?”), you negotiate a date, they even say they’re on their way and then – they never show. No call. No e-mail. Nothin’ You planned your day, you re-arranged your schedule, you took a shower, you even popped your $3 tab of Viagra – and they don’t show.  

Next: MindFuckers Supremo

 
 East Village Boy Michael
Posted 4/23/2009 at 10:28 AM
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This week’s East Village Boy of the Week is Michael, from Miami. Photographed for EVB by Robert Clyde Grima. There are lots more photos of Michael after the Jump, and you can be sure these are NSFW. East Village Boy Michael

 
 'Go Ahead, Make Her Day'
Posted 4/23/2009 at 11:58 AM
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You may want to rethink the way you treat your lady. I recently watched a woman get beaten up in New York City. She was driving, he was in the passenger seat. Then I read about Rihanna, then, a couple of days ago I saw her brand spankin' new gun tattoo. Nice.

Guns and women are back. An estimated 11 million to 17 million women in America own guns now—a number that is definitely on the rise, as more women than ever are taking up target shooting and hunting and feel the need to bear arms for better protection against domestic violence and abuse. 

The National Rifle Association's target-shooting classes for women "have been... Continued after the Jump, Go ahead, make her day

 
 Gays Should Not Marry
Posted 4/16/2009 at 11:58 AM
 
 
 The Trouble With Safe Sex
SETH MICHAEL DONSKY visits NYC’s last remaining bathhouses to investigate whether safe sex is still an effective message against HIV.
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It's Friday night, and I’m headed to the East Side Club, one of the last two remaining gay bathhouses in New York City.

Ostensibly a relaxation and social club for gay and bisexual men, it’s located on two floors of a non-descript office building on East 58th Street. I take an elevator to the sixth floor and wait behind a thick, Plexiglas window in a dark cell of a foyer, reminiscent of a vintage, blue movie theater box office. Posters for events such as the International Mr. Leather Contest, prominently featuring half-naked men, line the walls.

After a few moments, the manager buzzes me in through a small door. I am immediately overcome by a smell of chlorine, industrial-strength disinfectant, locker-room funk and poppers.

A labyrinth of interconnecting dark hallways is lined on either side with innumerable clapboard rooms. Each room contains a twin-sized cot, a hook for hanging your clothes and a table with a couple of condoms and a packet of lube. But whether anyone will be using the provided protection is....

Continued after the Jump, The Trouble With Safe Sex

 

 
 East Village Boy of the Week, Parker
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This week’s East Village Boy of the Week is Parker, a series of self-portraits
Photographed for EVB by Parker Tilghman, from San Francisco.

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 Reese Rideout Covers DNA Magazine
Posted 4/15/2009 at 4:19 PM
DNA: You’re stuck overnight in an elevator with a pack of condoms and one hot stranger. Would you prefer it be with a hot dude or hot chick?

Reese Rideout: This sounds like the start of a steamy movie so if I’m wanting to make a hot video for my fans then the hot dude would be right up my alley...

Reese then goes on to talk about his favorite fucks at Randy Blue, acting and modeling outside of porn and being the class clown in high school.   

Pick up the magazine at   To The Moon Marketplace  in Wilton Manors, Florida.

 
 The Idaho Challenge
Posted 4/14/2009 at 11:19 AM
The Idaho Challenge is a community project by Gays.com to produce a user-generated video to be released 17 May 2009, the International Day Against Homophobia and Transphobia (IDAHO). While 67 countries have signed the new United Nations statement to decriminalise homosexuality worldwide, anti-gay discrimination remains a reality in many parts of the world. This year, with your help, we want to create a video that sends out the message that gays, lesbians, bisexuals and transgendered people are just like everyone else. We come from all over the world and we come in all shapes and sizes and colours. And we want to send this message to the people of the world in every language that's out there!
 
 
 It's Just Sooo Très Gay
Posted 4/14/2009 at 10:03 AM
Quite frankly we have no idea why it makes sense to include this in Shades of Gay, but it was just a lovely pick-me-up on an otherwise mundane day. We thought you might like it too. Oh and thanks to Elaine Lancaster for turning us on to it.
 
 
 10 Men & Their Professions to Avoid Dating
Posted 4/14/2009 at 9:52 AM
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In nature, there comes a time when a baby bird, tender and delicate, must test its wings and learn to fly. The outcome is never known--to us, the bird, or the sidewalk it crashes and burns into because it "just wasn't time". Humans have a similar moment; it's called dating. And although we can dust ourselves off after a bad date and try again--there have been times we too--crash and burn. Was it chemistry? Their looks? The food they ordered? No, it was their profession.

In order to save you much time, mascara and heartache, I've compiled a list of men and their professions you should avoid dating and why. Trust me--"been there, done that!"

Never Date Men in the Following Professions:  Continued after the Jump, 10 Men & Their Professions to Avoid Dating

 
 Leo Giamini at Boardwalk
Posted 4/14/2009 at 9:50 AM
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Last weekend, Boardwalk, a Gay stripper bar in Wilton Manors (the Gay are of Fort Lauderdale, FL) brought Leo Giamini to the club for three nights of shows. We later learned that there is quite a bit of controversy surrounding several bareback scenes Mr. Giamani did working for CockSureMen. According to RawTop, "At the end of last year Leo Giamani posted the following on a different porn blog: I would also like everyone to be aware that I have not done any bareback scenes in over 100 days. [snip] I want everyone to be aware that I will never do any type of bareback scene again. I want everyone to know that I always use condoms in my personal life. In addition, I have only performed bareback sex in videos which were done with disease free models whose tests were recent and verified."

Well we're hoping that Leo sticks to his word, as he is definitely one of the hotter Gay porn stars to show his stuff on the nightclub circuit. You can check out the photos of that night at Boardwalk here: View Leo Giamani Photo Gallery. If you want to see the bareback stuff, you'll have to google it, we don't link to bareback!

 
 Flavor Of The Week: Bisexual Bombshell
Posted 4/12/2009 at 11:02 AM
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I was 21 years old that spring of 1979, a year after moving from my provincial nest in northwest Pennsylvania to the Big Apple in pursuit of adventure and an acting career. It was the end of the sexual revolution; a time when sex was still fun and the only apparent danger was the risk of getting the clap. That same year saw the infancy of Jerry Falwell’s Moral Majority, which helped bring Ronald Reagan into the White House and marked the country’s embrace of more traditional values.

Already lit after a few Dewar’s with water at the now-defunct Ninth Circle on 10th Street in the West Village, I hopped a half block east to Waverly Place and my next bar. Sporting a black AC/DC T-shirt given to me by an executive I was occasionally screwing, I stepped into Julius’, a gay tavern touted as the oldest in Manhattan, once frequented by Tennessee Williams and Truman Capote. Although it also served a decent hamburger, I was hungry for meat that was still breathing.

Tossing my mop of dirty blond hair, I scanned the room, hoping to spot someone interested enough to send me a drink. I leaned against the oak bar and rested my leg on the foot rail made of brass Bassett hounds, positioning myself to order, when a handsome older man of about 35 rushed over and offered to buy. He was wearing a plain T-shirt with the name “Steve” sprawled across his lean but well-muscled chest. His hair and body reminded me of Keith Carradine in Nashville. I was so grate ful for the free drink from such a good-looking source that I hadn’t noticed the girl standing next to him. Continued after the Jump, Flavor Of The Week: Bisexual Bombshell

 
 Kieran Culkin
Posted 4/12/2009 at 10:39 AM
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The thing that’s striking about Kieran Culkin in person is his indistinctiveness: He’s smaller, more diffuse, and more everyguy than the sharp and damaged characters on which he’s made his name. In blue jeans and jacket he’s unrecognizable on an East Village street; in conversation he’s as funny and loquacious as a corner bartender. Turns out that’s by design, and probably therapeutic: As ascion of one of Hollywood’s largest and most controversial stage families, he started film acting at the age of 7, and ever since has endured tabloid noise about his father’s mismanagement of his older brother Macaulay’s runaway stardom from the Home Alone films—a pop-culture juggernaut that threatened to typecast the entire family by default. Continued after the Jump, Kieran Culkin

 
 Just a Rimminder
Posted 4/11/2009 at 10:35 AM
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Thanksgiving Dinner. In a poll of 5,379 BastardLife readers, 47% of you told us you loved rimming, citing that you incorporated the tangy delight into your intimate regimen up to twice a week. 23% of those who rimmed regularly recommended 69'ing and rimming, allowing both of you to experience the sensation mutually. 28% of you said you had enjoyed it in the past, both giving and receiving, but have been finding it hard to find partners willing to engage in the practice recently. A small 13% of you said it just wasn't for you. Lots more form Bastard Life after the Jump, Just a rimminder

 
 I Kissed A Boy by Boy Interrupted - Max and Mike
Posted 4/11/2009 at 10:20 AM
Two cute guys doin' the Katy Perry song. I want the one with star tattoo.
 
 
 We've Got A Crush On Nick Adams
Posted 4/10/2009 at 9:50 AM
Sethboyardee presents the Crush of the day. Wednesday it was Nick Adams. To view a few more photos of Nick in various states of dress and undress (we left the best shots of Nick for you to  view after the Jump), use this link, Nick Adams at Sethboyardee.
 
 Closing the Bi-Curious Deal
Posted 4/9/2009 at 11:58 AM
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Q: What produces that magic moment that pushes a bi-curious guy over the edge and into a same-sex encounter? I've been in several settings with straight identified guys where I felt a connection and things might have been headed there—but it always ends up with nothing happening. Do I need courage to take it there or are these just near-misses? 

A: Common problem. Thing is, it's not you—it's him. I have closed the deal on many straight identifying men in college who called me fag in the quad, but get on their knees and blow me—but that was because it was late and alcohol—and the blood promise that I'd keep their dirty little secret—played a big role. You and I are all grown up now,... Continued after the Jump, Closing the deal

 
 
 East Village Boy Joey
Posted 4/8/2009 at 2:07 PM
This week’s East Village Boy of the Week is Joey, from Staten Island (that’s in NYC)Photographed for EVB by McKenzie Adkins Lots more photos of Joey after the Jump, East Village Boy Joey
 
 Adam Lambert Performs Tears for Fears Mad World
Posted 4/8/2009 at 1:14 PM
It's Adam Lambert the world is mad about. This is the best performance on American Idol ever! Period.
 
 
 Meet Bob
Posted 4/7/2009 at 11:14 AM
Bob likes to massage, he helps the user sustain sensation and reach a new intensity of release. Hygienic, stylish and ready for play, he is smooth and designed with a ring for full control of the sensual experience. Use BOB as you wish, whether it be with a partner for added enjoyment or as a secret companion, worn discreetly. Bob comes presented in an elegant gift box, accessorized with manual, satin pouch for stylish storage and a 1-year LELO warranty. More about Bob after the Jump, Bob from Lelo
 
 Is The Cash Worth It?
Posted 4/5/2009 at 10:21 AM by  R.P. Andrews

Q: I dropped out of high school when I was 17, ran away from home (Fargo, North Dakota) and now, at 20, I’ve lost my two jobs in a row as a waiter at gay restaurants here in Lauderdale. But I’m a good looker, got a hot body, get a lot of cruises from the customers I’ve served, and figure I can make a living other ways. Bottom line: what does it take to be a paid escort?  How do I break into the profession? 

A: I assume you don’t look like you’ve been on a perpetual meth orgy for the past six months and that you got a respectable tool (at least 6 inches), a cell phone, and at least a bike to get around. If so, follow these simple instructions even a high school drop-out (duh) can understand: 

Buy a cheap digital camera at Walgreens with a timer on it and take some sexy shots of yourself in a jock, underwear, you get the picture. Or have a friend with a camera do it for you in exchange for doing him.  

Once you’ve got your pix, place an ad in one of the gay rags, you know, the ones mixed in with all those “deep tissue masseurs.” It will cost you but until you get word of mouth clientele or repeat business, it’s the only way to make the world know you’re open for business. Think of the ad as your business card. If the room you rent smells of urine and McDonald’s wrappers, specific “out only;” otherwise get out the Lysol. Some guys prefer not taking young boys like you who might hit them over the head for their money back to their places. Then your ad should read “In and out.” 

Now I’m not condoning prostitution here but say that guy from Iowa City you’ve “escorted” out for dinner suddenly falls in love with you and you with him and the two of you would like to consummate your relationship (Sure.) If you’re a top, reprogram yourself now. Butt plugs and dildos at the local porn shop can be great training tools. If you’re a bottom, start fucking a few freebies to practice positions. Bottom line, you need to be “versatile.” Unless, of course, you’ve got a tool down to the floor. After all, you’re young enough to get it up no matter what the guy looks like, right?  

Try to sound intelligent. At least read some of the headline stories on the aol home page – and not the ones about Madonna. Some older guys like conversation first before fucking. It makes them feel they’re with a human being not a machine. 

After all this, be ready for the competition. There are plenty of pretty guys like you with their brains in their dick, all fighting for these same, finite (that’s your big word for the day) gay tourist dollars. And after you’ve accumulated a couple of bucks, put it aside to get your GED. Believe me, it beats trying to stick a 70 year old guy’s limp noodle up your ass and sounding like you’re in ecstasy.  

 

 

 Gym Assholes Part II

Posted 4/5/2009 at 10:21 AM by  R.P. Andrews

Top on my list in the gym asshole category are the cell phone addicts. They’re on a machine you want and it’s not that they’re taking a quick break between reps. No, they’re just sitting there, gabbing away to their clubbing partner, girlfriend, mother, or some sucker who may actually be interested in that overpriced home they’ve been trying to unload for the past six months. All gyms should make it a rule – if you gotta make a call, do it off the gym floor. 

A close second are the chit chatters, you know those two guys who linger around a machine you’ve been wanting to get on for the past half hour, one on it but not doing anything, the other leaning against it in a sexy kind of pose. And God help you if one’s trying to make the other. One time I clocked a conversation that went on for twenty minutes.

Then there’s the asshole with a bod all the hours in the gym aren’t going to make a difference with who just has to get on the machine you’re on. He lurks there on the edge of your peripheral vision but enough to make sure you see him. There’s a least a dozen unoccupied devices of self-torture he can use, but, no, he has to use yours. Sometimes he’ll even quip, “Gonna be long?” to which I usually reply, “Sorry buddy. It’s gonna be awhile.” Or I kill myself and do an extra rep just to piss him off more.

The “impress you, didn’t I?” guys do 30 pounds and two reps, then reset the machine to 150 to impress or intimidate the next guy up.

The ones I love the best are the “Must Be Seen” boys, who mill around the gym looking busy to maximize their exposure, but leave a half hour or 45 minutes later not having done much at all.

All this sweat and sacrifice and money and time – and assholes - just to snarl a man  We can fool ourselves all we want into thinking it’s because we want to stay healthy but deep down we know we want to feel hot and confident and ready. I’m beginning to wonder if just whipping out my credit card once a month for the “deep tissue therapist” of my choice in the back of one of the gay rags wouldn’t make more sense. One thing for sure - it would take the guilt trip out of pigging out with a half gallon of pistachio ice cream.

Send your comments – and hate mail – to me directly at rpandrews@bellsouth.net

 
 East Village Boy of the Week, Jeremy
Posted 4/4/2009 at 9:39 AM
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This week’s East Village Boy of the Week is Jeremy, from New York Photographed exclusively for EVB by Mckenzie James.

Lots more photos of Jeremy after the Jump, EVB Boy of the Week

 
 The Dirty Girl
Posted 4/4/2009 at 9:31 AM
Controversial "Wetlands" author Charlotte Roche talks about bodily functions, shaving pubic hair, and why there are so few euphemisms for female masturbation.
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Charlotte Roche is a curious mix of old radicalism and new daring. A well-known music and talk show host in Germany, Roche has produced a minor literary scandal, not to mention a major commercial success, with her first novel, "Wetlands," which is now being published in the United States. The first German book to make Amazon's worldwide bestseller list, "Wetlands" is a savage, darkly humorous attempt to depict the contours of female anatomy and desire that has appalled as many as it has delighted with its graphic details.

Continued after the Jump, The dirty girl

 
 Should We Care What Shakespeare Did in Bed?
Posted 4/4/2009 at 9:27 AM
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Was Shakespeare a hottie? Was Homer a hunk? John Milton: six-pack abs? Dante: hot or not?

You would think, from recent coverage of the portrait newly claimed to be of Shakespeare (a claim front-paged by the New York Times early last month) that these are valid literary questions rather than evidence that the culture of celebrity has irretrievably corrupted literature.

This Shakespeare is handsome and glamorous, so how does this change the way we think about him? And do the painting and provenance tell us more about his sexuality, and possibly about the person to whom the sonnets are addressed?

Continued after the Jump, Should We Care What Shakespeare Did in Bed?

 
 Penny Arcade VS. Bruce Benderson
Posted 4/3/2009 at 2:54 PM

When performance artist par excellence, former notorious Warhol actress, East Village anti-gentrification activist, downtown art archivist, and libidinal hurricane Penny Arcade came across my manifesto Toward the New Degeneracy, which deals with bohemia and the artistic avant-garde, she knew we were destined to meet.

Wish I’d shared the same intuition.

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For more than two years, on the advice of certain (ex-)friends, I assiduously evaded the Exterminating Angel known as Penny, out of fear that my narcissism wasn’t strong enough to vanquish hers. I mean, who knew more about bohemia, the cultural history of New York, or the disastrous gentrification of the East Village than she? Meeting her might force me to take my 20-year-old gold-braided chip off my shoulder, despite my fondness for epaulettes (they were big in the 70s). Maybe I’d have to turn in my crown of thorns and relinquish to her my prickly throne as the Royal Crank of Anti-Establishment Rants.

Well, never, Mary.

But actually, I had a lot to worry about. Nobody can harangue, disturb, delight, and mesmerize a crowd by relentless complaint and irresistible humor like the divine... Continued after the Jump, Penny Arcade VS. Bruce Benderson

 
 Filthy Dirty Zac
Posted 4/3/2009 at 2:20 PM
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Unless you’ve got children of a certain age, you probably haven’t seen much of Zac Efron’s work. This is it, so far, in a nutshell: Efron is the star of Disney’s High School Musical franchise, which ostensibly revolves around the blooming relationship between Troy (Efron) and Gabriella (Vanessa Hudgens), a jock and a brain respectively, who couldn’t be more different from each other but who discover a common ground in their mutual love for music. Their (chaste) courtship involves various plot twists and adolescent entanglements enacted through a series of song-and-dance numbers. That, essentially, is a High School Musical movie. In the past three years, Disney has produced a trio of them, and it’s now estimated that the films, plus all of the attendant HSM (as the kids like to call it) merchandising, has generated more than $1 billion in revenues. It hasn’t hurt the cause that Efron got together with Hudgens in real life, and that he also appeared in Adam Shankman’s 2007 remake of Hairspray, which raked in more than $200 million worldwide. Continued after the Jump, Zac Efron Gets Dirty

 
 The Gym: Part I 
Posted 4/2/2009 at 8:14 AM by  R.P. Andrews

Ah, the gym! I used to belong to a totally gay one. Now I go to one that’s mixed but neither sexual orientation has a monopoly on eye candy, homophobia and assholes.  

As for the eye candy, what’s there to say? You can OD on it – and that goes for the hot, 20 inch waist gals too. Although there are some guys who prance around who think their hot even if their belly’s in the Panhandle and their ass is in New Orleans.  

Which brings me to the homophobia. Rampant and as thick as sweat on a crunch board. Straight guys are afraid to look at another guy for fear the guy will think he’s queer and coming on to him, and gay guys don’t look so they don’t have to deal with rejection or make some poor slob think he’s being wooed. It’s as if everyone has blinders on. So in the end, we sport that vacant, “I don’t give a fuck” stoic stare when in reality what we want to do is grab the guy by the balls, shove him down on that crunch board and fuck the shit out of him right there in front of all those humming treadmills.  

Plus, everyone is trying to out-butch one another with that same gym jock swagger, whether they’re six foot two and built like a brick shit house or five foot two and Woody Allen’s younger brother. You know the trot I mean, slow and easy with the hips, butt out, shoulders up (after all you worked on ‘em so show ‘em off) and those muscular, veiny arms just hanging there. Oh, with that stoic vacant look to make it complete. Or that optional pulling up of the T-shirt to casually show off those killer abs. 

Next Time: My Look at Gym Assholes

 

 
 Michael Lucas Vs. Brent Corrigan
Posted 3/30/2009 at 7:59 AM
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Moments after San Francisco City Supervisor Bevan Duffy praised the gay porn industry for promoting a sex-positive environment and praising the industry's role as "the first exposure many of us had to the gay community", porn impresario Michael Lucas jumped on the stage of the Castro Theater's GayVN Awards and admonished the crowd, "Shame on you! “Shame on the judges who nominated and awarded [porn star Brent] Corrigan. On a night we honor ASACP there should be no forgiveness for the company’s and individuals who put the industry in danger by supporting this.”

Lucas was admonishing them because Corrigan had just won three awards, the first time the formerly underage model had been nominated. Corrigan admitted in 2005 to filming several bareback scenes for Cobra Video while underage, using a fake ID to convince now-murdered Cobra owner Bryan Kocis that he was over 18. Since then, Corrigan has gone on to form his own production company. The story continues after the Jump,Michael Lucas Vs. Brent Corrigan

 
 
 Call Backs
Posted 3/29/2009 at 7:59 AM
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Indeed, there are many exceptions to what were commonly understood rules in our lives. But is there one, Thomas L. of Providence, Rhode Island asks, for the call back? "We had two amazing dates without sex; on our third, he made love to me," he writes us. "The problem is, he hasn't called me back going on three days now."

Of course, a number of issues come to mind. Pride: "I mean, he was inside of me. He made all of the moves. I gave myself to him. I feel cheap calling him after three days of nothing, like I'm desperate." Desire: "I really like him. He wasn't like anyone else. And I want to see him again so much." Anger: "I feel stupid. ...Just when I thought this wasn't just another ... Continued after the Jump, Call backs

 
 Ashton Kutcher Gets Waxed
Posted 3/29/2009 at 7:54 AM
How hot is this? Check it out. Ashton Kutcher gets his chest waxed and lets loose with a few screams.
 
 
 Tired Of Double Life?
Posted 3/25/2009 at 11:14 PM at 9:00 AM by  R.P. Andrews

 Q:I’m married married, yep to a woman . She’s a wonderful wife and stay-at-home mom to our three beautiful kids but as I get older my urges for guys are getting stronger and stronger. Fortunately I have a few buddies at the gym where we play in the sauna when the coast is clear. There’s even an occasional web date on the Q.T. But I’m tired of leading this double life. Should I just tell my wife and get it over with and stop living a lie? 

 A:Sure there are a few wives that will understand and even let you play on the side but, buddy, life isn’t a happy ending Logo movie and honesty is not always the best policy. Unless you can read your wife, I wouldn’t say shit. Divorce can be pretty costly particularly if she has no source of income and there are kids in the picture. You could be cleaned out financially in a New York minute and wouldn’t even be able to afford your gym membership. My advice: keep your secret life just that. Just don’t fall in love, huh, stupid?

 
 Cooper on Black Sheep Boys
Posted 3/25/2009 at 11:08 PM
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Black Sheep Boys Presents Cooper. More photos after the Jump, Cooper

 
 Happy Ending
Posted 3/25/2009 at 11:08 PM
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"Wow" by Julian Hargreaves from THE/END (#12/2009) stars Francisco in a pop-inspired layout that looks like Remington Steele turning tricks in Hollywood circa 1984. Lots more photos and Story after the Jump, Happy Ending

 
 NYC’s Legendary Swing Club
Posted 3/25/2009 at 11:00 PM
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The best thing about American Swing, the documentary about famed swingers club Plato’s Retreat, is that it’s not a dramatic recreation. That project probably got dumped after the movie about Studio 54, simply called 54, bombed in 1998. Instead, the documentary, directed by Jon Hart and Matthew Kaufman, uses the people who were there to tell the story of Plato’s Retreat, which first appeared at the Ansonia apartment building and later moved to 509 West 34th Street.
 

There’s still some star power behind the tale of NYC’s legendary swing club. The parade of commentators eventually turns into a parlor game. Here’s a tip: you get pretty far in before Anthony Haden-Guest finally appears.

 

Much of the fun with American Swing is catching up with folks. There are some pleasant surprises. Veteran porn star Annie Sprinkle looks great. Al Goldstein is in relatively good shape. There’s no such thing as a bad cameo from Professor Irwin Corey. It’s also good to see porn director and former Plato’s manager Fred Lincoln on the big screen, since he didn’t get to reprise his role as a psycho in the remake of The Last House on the Left.

 

Continued after the Jump, NYC Swing Club

 
 ABC's "What Would You Do?" Plants Gay Men in a Straight Sports Bar with Surprising Results
Posted 3/25/2009 at 9:00 AM
ABC News planted a Gay couple in a straight New Jersey Sports bar throughout an entire day. The objective was for them to show affection for each other and gauge strangers reactions. The video shows a surprising level of support and acceptance.
 
 
 
  Peter Pans and Tinker Bells: Part 2
Social commentary Posted 3/24/2009 at 9:00 AM by  R.P. Andrews

Last time I spoke about the Tinker Bells of gay society, those guys who think life is one perpetual fuckfest with no responsibilities or consequences. Now, there is the crème de la crème of the Tinker Bells, the ones we all see on the beach at Sebastian, the buffed thirty year olds with the Matinee looks paired off on the blanket with some old man – I don’t mean older – I mean a member of the Denture Cream Generation. What I’m sure they know but don’t want to face up to is the reality that the Old Man is the one really in charge and that they are as expendable as a used condom on the floor of a sex club. 

So why should I give a shit about the Tinker Bells? None of my fucken business, right? I beg to differ – unfortunately, we’re forced to deal with them every time we venture into our closeted two-by-four gay worlds. (And we are closeted and ghettoized, boys, make no mistake about that, and not by choice, but that’s material for another blog). They’re the waiters at the gay restaurants, the help behind the sex club or bath house entrance windows, the clerks at the gay shops.  

You’re dropping $45 for a T-shirt to cater to your petty ego that you know was made in Vietnam for a quarter and there’s a Tinker Bell, having a-diarrhea-of-the-mouth conversation on his cell while you’re trying to check out. Suddenly that frumpy look comes over his face, unless you’re cute of course. You’ve disturbed him. It’s at that moment that I’d like to say three things to the fucker, AFTER he’s taken the security lock off the rag I’m buying: (a) “I don’t have to spend my money here,” (b) “Don’t take it out on me that at 42 you’re still working at a minimum wage job,” and lastly, (c) “When you run my Visa card through with the twenty thousand dollar credit line, I want a smile on your face and a ‘thank you sir’ from your mouth.” 

 

 
 Twist Underwear Fashion Show with Wet Underwear Contest
Posted 3/22/2009 at 10:14 PM
Right now we're offering up a little bit of Eye Candy, but we'll blog some more later today. We're working our four spaces at Fort Lauderdale's Pridefest and not getting much done! This is Robert. We found him slinging cocktails at Twist on Miami Beach. To check out more photos of Twist's Elite Underwear Show
 
 As Luxury Retail Continues to Suffer, Fetish Wear Feels the Pinch
Posted 3/20/2009 at 10:14 PM
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The red and black walls of Demask, a high-end fetish wear boutique on Orchard Street, are lined with racks of leather straps, latex jocks, corsets, bodysuits, butcher aprons and other buckles, prongs, chains and kinky accessories.

But according to the Antoinette, the store’s manager, who can be found most days and evenings at the counter, Demask is experiencing the economic slump in its own peculiar way.

“We do sell little things—like toys, masks and small accessories—and we get a lot of foot traffic, but people just aren’t buying our primary wares: the clothing,” says Antoinette, who wishes to be known by her first name only. The store, long a mainstay in the fetish community, has experienced such a sales drop that, according to Antoinette, it’s not even breaking even.

Continued after the Jump, As luxury retail continues to suffer, fetish wear feels the pinch

 
 Peter Pans and Tinker Bells: Part I
Social commentary Posted 3/20/2009 at 10:04 PM by  R.P. Andrews

I teach college in-between doing research for my books – in the dark venues of Lauderdale’s sex scene - and I’ve been amazed that almost two thirds of my students and the ones with the most smarts are women. I mean, Christ, where are the men – are they all planning to be web designers, rock stars, or live off a woman’s six figure corporate lawyer’s salary? Again, we talk in generalities but my conviction is that the ladies are far more mature than the guys and that a good percentage of the American male population – straight and gay - still live in a world of adolescent exuberance. Straight guys who fall in this category I like to call Peter Pans: out with boys, into football and playing jock, forgetting they’re 45 or 55, beer bellied, and up to their asses in debt.  

Now the gay equivalent are what I label Tinker Bells. Gay guys who partied through their 20’s and 30’s with little in the way of career aspirations or investments and now at the Just for Men time of their lives have no notion or, worst, haven’t even thought about who’s going to take care of them when the Viagra doesn’t work anymore and their asses are sagging. Oh, we’ve all run into them, the great-in-the-sack, still hot at forty something or fifty something guy who lives in “A Rented Room” and has had a string of Christmas help, minimum wage, temp jobs and pissed the money away as fast as it came in searching for that next great lay in Amsterdam, Rio or Montreal, following the moveable feast of Leatherfests and Bearfests. Social Security quarters? Pensions? 401K’s? Who’s running for President again?  

More on Tinker Bells Next Time

 
 The Curious Case of the Gay-Porn-Star Identical Twins!
Posted 3/19/2009 at 2:34 PM
The photo of A-Rod kissing himself in the April edition of  Details magazine is getting a lot of talk online and on the news, but what caught our eye is the story about the porn-star identical twins.

Discontent after appearing on numerous TV shows including Law & Order, with modeling gigs for Barclays and offers on the table from Ralph Lauren Polo, these two brothers took off in a different, some would say, insane direction. You'll have to pick up a copy of the magazine to the read rest, but we assure you it's worth every penny of the $3.99! 

 
 
 East Village Boy Charlie
Posted 3/19/2009 at 2:16 PM
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This week’s Boy of the Week is Charlie, from Brooklyn
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 Hairy Latins? Smooth Latins?
Posted 3/18/2009 at 5:14 PM

Q: Jerry and I were really attracted to one another right from the start. I’m pretty hairy and Jerry likes hairy guys. Jerry’s a smooth Latin and I go ga-ga over smooth Latins. Our sex was great but on everything else we were the exact opposites, and after a few months of putting up with the bullshit, I left. Now I’ve met the most wonderful guy in the world – Ben – and while we are on the same wavelength on so many things, he’s hairy and that’s starting to get in the way of my hard dick. I really want to be loyal to my man but do you think his not being my physical type might get in the way? 

A: Wake up. The sexual attraction has to be there right from the start or it ain’t going nowhere. You can try to brainwash or try to reprogram yourself all you want but sooner or later your dick that’s hardwired for Latins is going to be dragging you to Hialeah. You got four options: keep Jerry as a fuck buddy; drop Ben; pay for his laser hair removal; or learn conversational Spanish.

 
 I'd Go Many Miles For Some of That Miller
Posted 3/18/2009 at 3:58 PM
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Stunning and outrageously sexy are the words I would use to describe twenty four year old model  Miles Miller ,  Empire Model Managements  latest star. Originally from Kentucky, he recently moved to New York city to start modeling professionally. Good move Miles! More photos after the Jump, I'd Go Many Miles For Some of That Miller

 
 Blue-eyed Multi-talented Hottie Ian Somerhalder
Posted 3/17/2009 at 11:35 AM
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Ian Somerhalder (30) is American actor, male fashion model and producer, probably most notable for playing Boone in the TV drama Lost and as Paul Denton in the film The Rules of Attraction where he plays a gay character. In May 2006, Somerhalder was named one of DNA Models' Top 10 Male Models.

Video below. More photos and story after the Jump,: "Blue-eyed Multi-talented Hottie Ian Somerhalder

 
Paul Denton (Ian Somerhalder) and James Van Der Beek montage from the movie the Rules of Attraction. Music includes Out of the Races Onto the Track by The Rapture and Faith by George Michaels
 
 
 Worried About that Erection “Lasting More than Four Hours?”
Editors note: this is part II of A Hard Dick Is Hard To Find, Read Part I Here: A Hard Dick Is Hard To Find
Original Content Posted 3/16/2009 at 2:41 PM by  R.P. Andrews

Last time I talked about the virtues of Big V – Viagara – and how it’s added years to the sex life of some many of us who aren’t 22 any more. Your dick may still want it but as you get older, getting it up starts becoming a lot of work. That’s why I’m convinced that the reason a lot of hot, humpy, built-like-brick shithouses guys after they turn 40 go bottom is because it’s just easier. You don’t have to worry about Mr. Peter or “performing.” Just spread those cheeks and get off from the other direction. Hell, most guys I’ve fucked the shit out of aren’t even hard when they shoot. Amazing. 

So what’s the real reason for this shortage of hard-on’s and our need to turn to pharms to make it happen? (Hell, have you noticed even porn stars are having problems and they eat Viagra like M and M’s?) It’s my firm belief we – straight guys and gay guys alike – have become desensitized to sex. Sex and skin are all over the place. My female college students dress like streetwalkers, buff bodies are all over TV, and not too long ago, there was even a billboard for Manhunt.net on 95. No wonder guys came out of the limp dick closet by the millions and made Viagra Pfizer’s best seller ever.  It takes more and more to get us hot.  You have to agree - there was something to be said for the good old days when gay life was still something only whispered about, not debated in state houses. 

About a year ago my long term partner (who’s 10 years older than me), after being content for decades with our platonic relationship, decided he wanted to resurrect our sex life. OK, I said, no problem; it beat putting money down at the sex clubs. But when his Pee Wee wouldn’t react to my alluring advances, he desperately asked if I knew how he could get some Viagara. Not letting on that I get at least a dozen spam messages a day from pharms trying to hustle the stuff to me now that I’m such an established customer, I innocently said I would Google the web.  

He checked the mailbox three times a day like a kid waiting for Santa to slide down the chimney. Finally, IT came. He asked me to sign for the envelope postmarked India because he didn’t want to show his face to the mailman. But when it came time to pop the pill – I know this sounds nuts - he stopped cold in his tracks. All the contra-indications those announcers on the commercials rattled off on the sound track while the visual showed some couple exchanging lascivious smiles suddenly engulfed his brain. “I can’t. I can’t do it. What if …,” he stammered. Was he worried about that erection “lasting more than four hours?” Frankly I think that’s a ploy to push the shit. We should be so lucky.   

So there the pills sit, forlorn and abandoned, in a dark desk drawer. I would have to have the luck of being married to the one guy in the whole US of A - straight, gay, or in between - who ordered Viagara and never took it!.  

Send your comments – and hate mail – to me directly at rpandrews@bellsouth.net.

 
 Feasting
Posted 3/16/2009 at 2:22 PM
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Pre fixe. In a poll of 5,391 BastardLife readers, 23% of you told us you incorporate food into your sexual regimen. Raw Honey won the favorite spot for use on nipples among both men and women. 41% of you said that food was the best form of "erotica," citing your use of the meal hour to work up your sexual appetite. Interested in a great Bastard Life readers tip? Find it after the Jump, Feasting

 
 Bel Ami Porn Star Ralph Woods Spotted at the Sleazy Awards Pool Party in Fort Lauderdale
Posted 3/14/2009 at 1:44 PM
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  Lilly Allen In Her Most Outrageous Interview Ever
Posted 3/13/2009 at 22:22 PM

This month's Gay Times features Lilly Allen in her most outrageous interview ever.

"I did once snog these [Lesbian Twins] in San Diego..."

She goes on after being asked "Identical or Fraternal..."

"Identical: Two girls. I was on this Sofa (at this point Lilly Jumps onto her seat like Tom Cruise on Oprah and stars gyrating with one hand in front and one hand in back to show where the women were) and I had them both and I was dancing and shoving my arse on one of them and and one on my front bottom. My assistant has got the picture!

The United Kingdom's Gay Times is locally available at To The Moon Marketplace

 
 The Second Cum Faces Book Is On The Way... Participate This Time!!!
Posted 3/13/2009 at 22:22 PM

EVB friend and contributor Stuart Sandford is working on his second Cumfaces book, and needs some East Village Boys to put out for him.

The images here are from his first Cumfaces. If you want to be in the next one, just take a picture of yourself on the brink of orgasm.

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Anyway, the images must 1) be landscape format, 2) feature your head and shoulders, 3) take place on a bed, and 4) be 300DPI and at least 12 inches/30cm wide.

Send your pics directly to Stuart at STUART@STUARTSANDFORD.CO.UK by March 31. More from East VIllage Boys after the Jump, New York City's East Village Boys

 
 Robert Pattison Talks about Gay Sex Scenes in GQ
Posted 3/13/2009 at 10:55 AM
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GQ is going to sell some issues with this revealing interview starring everyone’s favorite vampire, Robert Pattinson. Who wants to read about his sudden Twilight fame when he’s describing doing it doggystyle on the set of Little Ashes with Javier Beltrán.

“I thought I’d never get another acting job again,” Pattinson says. “So I was like, ‘Yeah—why not try to do something weird?’ There’s all these gay sex scenes. And y’know, I haven’t even done a sex scene with a girl, in my whole career.”

There's more after the Jump, Robert Pattison Talks about Gay Sex Scenes in GQ

 
 Hugh Jackman Testicular TV Examination Confirms: 'Two Balls'
Posted 3/13/2009 at 10:29 AM
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Hugh Jackman appeared on a Japanese game show, and after a typically insane entrance began to greet the show's players. He appeared shocked at first when one of the men reached out and grabbed his testicles. Granted, Jackman did tweak the guy's nipples first. A couple more photos and some additional story after the Jump, Hugh Jackman Testicular TV Examination Confirms: 'Two Balls'
 
 
 
 Sleazy Awards Photos
Posted 3/12/2009 at 3:11 PM
Below are two of the many hot go-go boys at Boardwalk.More photos from this evening have been posted here: Sleazy Awards Photos
 
 East Village Boy of the Week, Cédric
Posted 3/11/2009 at 1:16 PM
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This week’s East Village Boy of the Week is Cédric, from Antwerp, Belgium. Photographed for EVB by Yves De Brabander.

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 Fighting Fit
Posted 3/11/2009 at 1:12 PM
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The Love drill. "I hate you, but I want to fuck you, and oh by the way—I love you more than anything." Ok this may not be exactly how it played out, but in a nutshell, this is how love, where vulnerability exists, can play out.

The deeply in love know it: You know you'll never leave, but you say, "Fuck it," slam a door, grab your keys and your jacket and leave (for a couple of hours); You yell out angrily, "I wish we'd never met," then rip her clothes off or push her to the bed and proceed to have angry amazing sex that she thanks you for later; He screams, "I hate you, I really fucking hate you. And if you ever leave me, I'll really hate you," crying, accepting your tissue, then later your embrace. Continued after the Jump, Fighting fit

 
 'I'm No Killer' Gay Porn Star Tells Jurors
Posted 3/11/2009 at 11:50 AM
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It was a packed courtroom today as Harlow Cuadra and his former lover Joseph Kerekes finally took the stand in the capital murder trial of Cuadra.

Investigators allege the pair killed gay porn producer Bryan Kocis, 44, in his Dallas Township, Pennsylvania home in an effort to cut free Kocis' biggest star, Sean Lockhart, from his contractual obligations. The two men operated a rival online gay porn business and believed a film staring Lockhart and Cuadra could be worth $1 million.

Kocis' body was found by firemen responding to a fire at Kocis' house on the night of January 24, a Wednesday, his neck slashed to the point of near decapitation and his torso stabbed 28 times. Continued after the Jump, 'I'm No Killer' Gay Porn Star Tells Jurors

 
 
 Old Gays Don’t Die, They Just Go to Dinner Parties
Posted 3/9/2009 at 6:27 PM

 Q: I have no delusions of grandeur like some guys my age. I’m 71 and look it. The pouch, the bald head, the dentures – to paraphrase MacArthur, we old gays don’t die, we just go to dinner parties. My last two long term relationships left me for younger guys. Now the shoe’s on the other foot. Since I retired down here in Lauderdale from Milwaukee, more and more younger guys – I mean young enough to be my grandson – have come on to me. One in particular, Oliver, says he really likes mature men, not kids as he calls guys closer to his age, and says he’s beginning to fall in love with me. Again, I’ve been around the block a few times and don’t expect harps and violins, but how can I tell if he loves me for me or the Rolex I bought him for Valentine’s Day? My so-called contemporaries think I’m nuts? Do you? 

 A: No, there are genuinely younger guys who like older men – maybe it’s a Daddy or mentor thing or maybe they just want somebody they feel comfortable and secure with. But my own private opinion is they’re far and in between and most youngens do it for the guy’s credit line, not his smile. So how can you tell the difference? 

Is your picking up the tab on his Cooper and cell phone just expected? 

Is he constantly on his cell making mysterious calls out of your range, saying they’re calls from prospective job recruiters?  

Is he constantly going on five hour job interviews? 

Does he like to club with his younger friends and tries to find every excuse for you not to join them? (“But Billy, your arthritis!”) 

Is he telling you the gym is now open 24/7 and he likes to work out at 2 in the morning?  

Do you find condoms in the trash when you’ve been out and haven’t had sex with him in a week? 

If you answered yes to any of these questions, the next time he goes to the gym for a 2 am “work-out” have the locksmith ready and some hunk you can fuck afterwards to pile his shit on the curb.  Remember, money can but most anything – including a new fling.

 
 
 Weekend Warriors
Posted 3/9/2009 at 10:37 AM
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Second skin. In a poll of 3,962 BastardLife readers, 18% of you told us you would have anonymous sex this weekend through the help of the Internet. Of the 38% of you who said you had hooked up online within the past 3 months... Finish reading after the Jump, Weekend warriors

 
 
 The Ridiculously Hot Steve-o
Original Content Posted 3/8/2009 at 7:35 PM
We ran into Stevo at Twist, a gay club on Miami Beach. We'll have more photos shot Saturday Night at Twist in the Mad Paparazzi in a few days. But for now we thought you'd like a look at Stevo!
Stevo at Twist
 
 
 Road Ranger Hunk Patrol
Original Content Posted 3/7/2009 at 8:41 PM by  R.P. Andrews

 Q: My lover and I were traveling on 595 in Davie last Saturday when we got a flat tire. We called the Road Rangers service patrol for help and this really hot guy showed up. Both of us wanted more from him than a fixed flat. My Gaydar was screaming, but Tom, my lover, was saying I was crazy. I wanted to go for it, but Tom thought we'd get our asses kicked. Was there a way to get the stud's phone number without ending up with black eyes and tied to the guard rail next to our car? We've also run out of gas on that road and I have a feeling it could happen again next Saturday!  

 A: First, if I went by my Gaydar when I was living on Staten Island, the forgotten borough of New York City and a hotbed for hot Italian men, I would hit up on half the guys in the Staten Island Mall – even if their fat wives and kids were watching. I also probably would have had my head in the toilet. But OK, say your Gaydar is on course: tell him that you guys are in show biz and are looking for some very personal security and would he be interested in moonlighting on the side to make a couple of bucks (and do a couple of bangs). Dudes like that are always looking for a way to generate some extra cash. But watch his crotch when you stare into his sky blue eyes to make the offer – if there is growing interest (like Mae West quipped, “Is that a gun in your pocket or are you just happy to see me?”), then your Gaydar might be right on target. If, on the other hand, he does beat the shit out of both of you “homos” and tie you up to the guard rails, enjoy the experience as your entry into the world of S and M. Plus public humiliation can be fun! You two will probably be spotted by some roving news van and have your five minutes of fame on every station that night and half a dozen websites by morning!

 
 A Hard Dick Is Hard To Find: Part I   
Original Content Posted 3/7/2009 at 4:49 PM by  R.P. Andrews

I’ll say it straight out – I have no bones about using Viagara to get a boner. My male ego ain’t fragile enough to pass up a good thing and when you no longer needed a doctor’s visit or a scrip and could order it online like you would some 6 inch thong from International Male (both come from India)  – well I became a proud, full-fledged member of the Big V generation overnight. I must say the magic blue pill has done good by me. Chew on it (it works faster that way) and 45 minutes later – you can almost set your watch by it – Mr. Peter is up and ready for action. In fact V has added a whole new meaning to being a top. It’s fucking in the third dimension. 

Recall that scene in “Cat on A Hot Tin Roof” when closet-case Paul Newman says to Burl Ives that he drinks until he feels that click in his head? Well, that’s the same with Big V. You take it, waiting for that warm twitch in your dick, only the first sign you know it’s working is that click in your head.  

I remember a well educated Ph.D’ed up-to-his-ass fuck buddy of mine when I lived in  New York who worked for Pfizer telling me how the company had used its male employees as guinea pigs of sorts. Seems this high blood pressure med they had developed had this unforeseen but very interesting side effect and so they decided to distribute the stuff to their staffs to see what happened. All I can say, we screwed for hours. 

Now I got a good reason for turning to pharms - I’m not 22, 32, 42 – let’s stop there, O.K? But what the fuck’s the problem with these twenty somethings or thirty somethings who come on to me at Slammers, drop their drawers and still can’t get their wiener stiff even after five minutes of my awarding winning blow job? (Hell, when I was in my twenties and thirties, I was playing with myself three or four times a day if I could. Give me a rainy Saturday afternoon and a hot issue of Sports Illustrated and I was in jerk-off heaven.)  

By the same token, I think it’s crazy that you have to be hard yourself to snag the guy. Sure you may have Big V or Big C simmering in your loins but you still need the stimulation. I mean, isn’t the guy supposed to get you hard, not you be hard to get the guy? Or am I missing something here?

Send your comments – and hate mail – to me directly at rpandrews@bellsouth.net.  

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 The Phone Premiers on MTV April 21
Posted 3/7/2009 at 11:00 AM
What happens when someone as creative as Justin Timberlake rethinks the premise of the Amazing Race? What happens when MTV provides the vehicle to market it? What happens when you hide $50,000 somewhere in a huge city and make two phone calls that start a race between contestants using texted clues to find the money? What happens when you have a new contest week after week? This is what happens.
 
 
 Art of Erotic Illustrator Michael Breyette
Posted 3/7/2009 at 10:47 AM
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Michael Breyette is a full-time artist who specializes in erotic illustrations of naked or semi-clothed men. His work has appeared in several magazine features and gay romance novels and his first book, Summer Moved On.

More art from Michael Breyette after the Jump, Art of Erotic Illustrator Michael Breyette

 
 
 'Where's the beef?'
Posted 3/7/2009 at 10:33 AM
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They have a point: "Have we seen the last print edition of Hustler Magazine? Say it ain't so, Larry! Well, Larry Flynt isn't exactly pulling all the levers at his porn mag these days, but the CEO and CFO of FriendFinder, the current publisher of Hustler, are currently squabbling over whether or not to close the sticky—er, glossy—mag. The print edition apparently only loses money for the company, with its (NSFW) website and (NSFW) Adult FriendFinder apparently raking in the big bucks.

Continued with more from Bastard Life after the Jump, 'Where's the beef?'

 
 
 Is Bay to Breakers on the wagon?
Posted 3/7/2009 at 9:15 AM

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It's too soon to tell if the party people have won.

 

But after weeks of civic soul searching from City Hall to cyberspace, it's beginning to look as if Baghdad by the Bay will survive the latest threat to its reputation as the capital of free expression.
 

For a while, though, it was touch and go here in the city that brought you the Summer of Love, Burning Man and the Folsom Street Fair (the self-proclaimed "granddaddy of all leather events").
 

The organizers of Bay to Breakers -- the raciest footrace in America -- set off the hand-wringing when they announced last month that nudity, alcohol and floats would be banned from the infamous annual competition, which has transformed over the last 97 years into a Pilsener-fueled party on Pumas.

 

What's next for Bay to Breakers? Continued after the Jump, Is Bay to Breakers on the wagon?

 
 
 Gay Rights Activist Questions Hillary Clinton at EU
Posted 3/7/2009 at 8:44 AM
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Secretary of State Hillary Clinton called on a man at a Q&A session at the European Parliament today  "because he [was wearing] a T-shirt that [said] 'I Love Hillary'" on it.

The man stood up and said: "My name is Max. I am from Moldova, and I am a gay rights activist. In seven countries in the world homosexuals are sentenced to death and many more to prison. A lot of gay men around the world die because of the HIV AIDS policies that the Bush administration had that did not allow to spend money on prevention for men who have sex with men. How do you see the foreign policy of the United States changing in the coming years in the field of human rights and in particular sexual rights and gay and lesbian rights?"

The answer? Continued with video after the Jump,Gay Rights Activist Questions Hillary Clinton at EU

 
 
 Our Queer American Forefather?
Posted 3/6/2009 at 12:43 AM
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Stephen Spielberg's long-awaited biopic about Abraham Lincoln seems to finally have reached pre-production. While you might be thinking "who cares?" we'd like relay three bits of information that might make you sit up and take notice:

1) Abraham Lincoln shared a bed with his best friend, Joshua Speed, for four years. The men were 28 and 23-years-old respectively , and it isn't clear whether they were "trying on each other's stovepipe hats" or were merely trying to keep warm on those cold Illinois winter nights.

Read the rest of the reasons at Popnography after the Jump, Our queer American forefather?

 
 
 Hard Rock Dicks
Posted 3/6/2009 at 12:36 AM
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There's a collection of Hard Rock Dicks (AKA Penises) put together by the Black Sheep Boy. If you're into this sort of thing, penises carved in stone, you might want to click through and check it out.

Hey this art, right?

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 East Village Boy of the Week 
Posted 3/5/2009 at 10:10 PM
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This week’s East Village Boy of the Week is Jesse, from San Francisco.

 

Jesse was photographed for EVB by Parker Tilghman

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 The Sexy Blackpool Hunk Matt Kirkham
Posted 3/3/2009 at 3:10 PM
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Twenty two year old Matt Kirkham hails from Blackpool, UK. As a former professional football player he’ s definitely sculpted an incredible athletic body! With a perfect face, huge chest and powerfully thick legs. Tres Yummy!

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 Sleazy Street
Posted 3/3/2009 at 11:10 AM

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An economy spiraling downward might be a good thing. For sex, anyway. Historically, these two forces have been at odds. When the economy goes down, public expressions of sexuality go up. When stock portfolios are making bank, people tend to get prissy.


This dialectic between sex and money was a surprise discovery for Kat Long, author of the forthcoming history of sex called The Forbidden Apple. She couldn’t believe few had written about it. There are niche books aplenty about gay men in 1970s New York, but little about the competing forces of “good and evil,” as she calls it, a pendulum that has swung faithfully since New York’s Gilded Age, where Long begins her sordid tale.

“When the economy is bleak, sex culture becomes more visible on a street level,” says Long, a former editor at GO magazine and contributor to BUST and the late Playgirl. “I think people need escape. Simple needs still need fulfilling. And these don’t change. It’s human nature. The question is how the sex industry adapts to these times.”

Continued after the Jump, In New York City, if you're not getting paid, you're probably getting laid.

 
 
 Utah Saints?
Posted 3/2/2009 at 7:46 PM
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Much is being made of a study purporting to show that conservative states consume the same amount of porn as liberal states, and that Utah is the #1 consumer. However, the study was based on anonymized credit-card receipts, so couldn't it be said that perhaps Utah has the highest shame about its consumption? Maybe New Yorkers buy their porn without bothering to anonymize? More from Boy Culture after the Jump, Utah Saints?

 
 Nice Collective's Time Machine
Posted 3/2/2009 at 6:20 PM
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Now that all the Fashion Week craziness has jumped on a jet and landed in Europe and you’re no longer sick of it all, but back on your knees begging for more (literally), we thought we’d share some of the backstage action from Nice Collective’s show at New York Fashion week last week.

Upstairs on the runway it was pure spectacle. The show, titled Time Machine, landed at the Angel Orensanz foundation on the Lower East Side, a stripped down ex-synagogue. On the runway a copper-colored wood, metal, and leather beast of a turn-of-the-century carriage - the time machine itself - was in the sights of a gigantic hemisphere of Orwellian electronic eyes that stared down from on high. Models stomped past in duct-taped combat boots while ripped up machine-music boomed throughout the eerie space. The place just didn’t feel safe and we loved it. This continues with lots more photos after the Jump, Nice Collective's Time Machine

 
 Delicate Fruit
Posted 3/2/2009 at 6:14 PM
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The test of time. In a poll of 3,126 BastardLife men, 43% of you said that you were masters of your man's balls. Richard wrote in, "Slow, slow, slow. The key is slow, warm, and slow. My boyfriend of 10 years is always in a rush to make stud love to me like some porn star—and a good one, because when I succumb, it's quite mind blowing. But when I'm runnin' the show, I lay him back and take my time. And the one thing I make damn sure I service the best is that beautiful big old sack of his. Before he gushes, my big tough burly man of a man is writhing like a 16 year old girl havin' an orgasm for the first time." Continued and more from BastardLife after the Jump, Delicate fruit

 
 [Greta Christina] “An Actual Lesbian Girlfriend,” Or, Why You Should Never Listen to Dan Savage About Bisexuality
Posted 3/1/2009 at 11:05 AM
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In a recent column, Savage compiled a sampler of questions from students on his recent tour of universities. And among them was this question:

“I’m a lesbian, and my girlfriend is bisexual and wants to have a three-way with a man. This makes me nervous. What should I do?”

Savage’s advice?

“Get yourself a refillable Xanax prescription, or get yourself an actual lesbian girlfriend.”

WTF?!?

This advice is so irresponsible it made my jaw drop. But because the advice is so terse — and because the snark- to- content ratio is so disproportionately high — it’s a little hard to tease out its actual content, and the actual intent behind it. Near as I can tell, though, it seems to be one of the following three things. All of which suck.

Continued after the Jump, Why You Should Never Listen to Dan Savage About Bisexuality

 
 
 
 How to Get the Spark Back in Your Relationship
Posted 3/1/2009 at 10:33 AM
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Q: There is no more spark in my 7-year relationship and I would like advice on how to reignite it with her.

-Sparkless

A: I am really encouraged that you have a desire to get the spark back! It is common for people to reach a point in their relationship where they believe that a spark should self-maintain and then conclude that if (well, more accurately when) it doesn't, then the love must have run dry. It seems you get that this is not true.

When it comes to anything about your relationship - if you want it to exist, the only way you can ensure that it will is if you contribute it! A relationship is a vehicle, a container of sorts, that provides you the forum and the space to experience whatever it is the two of you wish to experience. If you are the only one who wishes to reignite the spark, you alone can take steps toward this and take 100% responsibility for making it happen.

Continued on Bilerico Project after the Jump, How to get the spark back in your relationship

 
 
 
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 Sheet Fighter
Posted 2/28/2009 at 11:05 AM
Hayoto Sakurai Sex Tape
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Martial arts star Hayato Sakurai is the latest "celebrity" to gift us with a sex tape (or three) (Please note this link is NSFW and people under the age of 18. In his case, though, like the notorious one that started it all (Pam & Tommy), the sex appears to be completely real and the participants enthusiastic. Perhaps he was not just trying to get more famous...but was instead just trying to get off? More from Boy Culture after the Jump, Sheet Fighter

 
 
 Possibly the Funniest Short Animation Film Ever! Courtesy Pixar Studios
Posted 2/28/2009 at 11:05 AM
 
 
 Staten Island's King of the Tickle Video
No nudity. No sex. Just a chance to see someone tortured with tickles.
Posted 2/28/2009 at 10:59 AM
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Essene Wolf begged for mercy. He sat immobilized in a wooden chaise lounge, his hands strapped down to the armrests at the wrist. His feet poked through stocks attached to the end, a metal latch twisted to keep the apparatus closed. Only his head was free to move, twisting as he struggled to break free and stop the people from tormenting him. He screamed at the top of his lungs, but that only made his situation worse. A cameraman, sitting on the floor a few feet away, recorded everything.

“Oh, you want me to stop?” teased one of his abusers.

“Please, please,” is all he can answer, breathing heavily during the brief respite. “No more.”

The abusers, two women in their early twenties named Tasha and Desire, looked at each other and shook their heads. They weren’t through with Essene. They turned and looked at the cameraman. He signaled for them to continue.

Continued after the Jump, Staten Island's King of Tickle Video

 
 
 Is Michael Lucas a Porn Marketing Genius?
Posted 2/26/2009 at 2:45 PM
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This is porn star Michael Lucas receiving a blowjob from, and then licking the invisible genitalia of, a plastic doll. Allow us to explain.

Posting this video is exactly what Lucas wanted us to do. It's pure link bait, we know. And so does Lucas, who posted the video in full here (potentially NSFW). There's no other reason to explain why he's mimicking sex with a (quite frightening) child's toy: He's hoping to draw attention to his open casting call for "models."

And it will probably work. Continued (and view the video) after the Jump, Is Michael Lucas a Porn Marketing Genius?

 
 Extended Gay Kiss Caps New Video from Pete Doherty
Posted 2/26/2009 at 2:33 PM
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The video for the new single from Pete, er, Peter Doherty's debut solo album Grace/Wastelands, called "Last of the English Roses" features Doherty scenes of Doherty playing football (and looking unusually ordinary) in a playground, and it's capped by a 30-second man-on-man kiss.

The in-an-out-of-detox former Libertines and current Babyshambles lead singer is known for his drug-related run-ins with the law, his relationship with model Kate Moss, and a side career in art in which many of the works are made with Doherty's own blood.

Video below, more from Towleroad after the Jump, Extended Gay Kiss Caps New Video from Pete Doherty

 
 
 Max Steel Fiction/Non-Fiction
Posted 2/26/2009 at 1:40 PM
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You’ve met them - the kids who claim to be all this and all that, all at the same time. It’s usually a lot of, let’s say, exaggeration. In the case of one Max Steele, it is no exaggeration. He’s the epitome of what it means to be a slash kid - musician slash writer slash performance artist slash zine-maker slash DJ slash go-go boy slash actor slash pursuits-that-defy-categorization. All of his projects, activities and multiple personas are folded up into one total piece of work-in-progress, which in-person, looks like it’s about to burst out of his in-constant-motion body and stream-of-consciousness language. His blog claims akathisia (an inner restlessness, manifesting itself with an inability to sit still or remain motionless) as an agenda, but I wonder if that’s a concept or a condition. Or both. Whatever it is, it works.
 

Weston Bingham: You share a name with an actual toy robot from 1984 (isn’t that the same year you were born?), who was the leader of the Robo Force. His motto was “any mission, any time, any place”. Mere coincidence?

Max Steele: Wow, good research Weston! I didn’t know about that toy! I guess I would be a good leader of the Robo Force. Leos are natural leaders (but of course, I don’t need to tell YOU that). I gotta say, I don’t know if I have the same motto as my robot namesake. I’m usually too lazy to have that kind of “whatever it takes” attitude. I guess it depends on what my goal is. I’m sure I’ve shown some determination, but I’m hard pressed to remember. I try not to do desperate, but I’m sure that figures in. But, y’know - no regrets.

Interview continues, after the Jump, Max Steel Fiction/Non-Fiction

 
 
 Bed Time Poll
Posted 2/26/2009 at 1:32 PM
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Done. In a poll of 5,361 BastardLife respondents, 43% of you cited a lack of concern about slowing down and pacing yourselves during intercourse because you knew you could keep yourself erect after ejaculation enough to continue sex—and even climax two or more times. 21% of you told us that you had found ways to prevent yourself from climaxing—like pulling out just before orgasm to perform oral sex on your partner, then continuing with intercourse after the wave of nearly cumming passed. A small percentage of you ... Continued on Bastard life after the Jump, Bed time

 
 
Ain't Woody Allen Sexy?
Posted 2/25/2009 at 11:16 PM

Q: I’m a corporate attorney, make a six figure salary but for all the money I’ve spent trying to fix myself up, I’m still taken for Woody Allen’s younger brother. What this means is I’m lucky to have quality sex once every leap year. Believe me, it’s not my elastic band ego that stops me from doing it, but should I stop farting around and just go out and buy the guy I want? 

A: I can’t condone or encourage an illegal act but let’s say hypothetically that prostitution were legal (Which I think it should be – have the government get income tax, sales tax, and make sure the boys are squeaky clean if you know what I mean). So, if buying someone were OK, why not? To me, sex is just another commodity for sale. But you’re a lawyer - make sure to come up with a contract he signs so you get exactly what you want, whether it be for an hour or a week’s vacation in Rio, in and out of the bedroom. And remember one thing – you’re the one paying the freight so you’re the one in control. He needs your credit line more than you need him, his cock and hot bod (did I really mean that?). 

As far as you being a dead ringer for Woody Allen’s younger brother: it’s sad that there are guys out there like you who don’t make the hit parade when it comes to looks but who could probably offer some other guy so much in a relationship while the pretty men  whom the average housewife in America would undergo a mastectomy to have 20 minutes of sex with have the personalities and intelligence of dog shit on a sidewalk. But who says life’s fair?

 
 
 Who is Poster Boy?
Henry Matyjewicz says he's part of an art revolution that's bigger than one person. In his first interview since his arrest, he talks to Matt Harvey about what Poster Boy means as a movement.
Posted 2/24/2009 at 12:07 AM
Poster Boy New York Artist
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A full year ago, as the city was marching to the beat of Buy! Buy! Buy!, defaced posters began appearing throughout the subway system. The early cut-and-paste jobs were crude and clever puns loaded with obscenities. A glop of paint turns a reality show tagline—about some rock stars’ brats—on itself. Alongside a tow-headed child, a placard asks: “Are They Born to Fuck?” The images are simultaneously logged on a Flickr site of someone called Poster Boy NYC. Street art blogs such as “And I Am Not Lying” took notice and Gawker and Gothamist kept the ball rolling.

After the economy crashed—and millions of straphangers were sick to death of being sold so much shit—Poster Boy’s style evolved into more sophisticated mash-ups. He teamed up with a high-minded cabal, including the public space artist Aakash Nihalani—who framed Poster Boy’s petty criminality in geometric tape designs. By the time New York magazine published a profile of Poster Boy on Oct. 5 2008, the subway artist was an anonymous masked avenger (a sexy accompanying photo showed tan arms in a wife beater, with a bandana and conductor-style cap, slouchy jeans and Nikes). He was now a symbol for an ever-more frustrated creative underclass losing jobs every day.

Finish reading the full interview after the Jump, Who is Poster Boy?

 
 
 Potty Mouth?
Advice Posted 2/24/2009 at 12:07 AM by  R.P. Andrews

 Q: I love to suck cock and I don’t like to boast, but I can go through a dozen loads at the sex club glory holes. But I always make sure between hard-ons to gargle with the mouthwash they provide. I even carry a small bottle in my pocket along with those Listerine breath strips just in case I don’t want to give up my booth space on a brisk Saturday night. You think that will protect me from all the shit goin' around? 

 A: You mean the shit on his cock from the guy he barebacked before he stuck his edged-up tool in your hungry mouth because his previous suitor didn’t want to get bred? Or are you talking about all those swiggly little organisms that cause syph, gon, and - God forbid – the Big A?  

Are you fucken nuts? Did you fail your high school biology class because you were too entranced with Jim the All- American Jock in the front row? By the time you reach for your breath strip, those tiny critters, that move at the speed of light, are down your throat and half way to California . But good news! At least when it comes to the HIV virus, studies show it’s less likely to get infected swallowing cum than getting it up the ass. 

But if you get a prolonged sore throat just remember, S and G may be paying you some company. Ever hear of drug-resistant strains? You bad boy, you!

 
 
 'Off the Box'Defined
Posted 2/24/2009 at 11:48 AM
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Off the Box: The state of being removed from a position of prominence/importance due to a foolish mistake. Related to Michael Phelps being dropped by Kellogg after a picture of him with a bong was released.

Dude, after that bonehead move you are so off the box.

 
 
 Lady GaGa Has a Boyfriend!

Music Video Posted 2/23/2009 at 9:43 AM

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Her boyfriend, Johnny, is featured in Lady Gaga's latest music video 'Eh, Eh (Nothing Else I Can Say)' as her 1940 Guido boyfriend! Music video by Lady Gaga performing Eh, Eh (Nothing Else I Can Say). Video Director: Joseph Kahn, Video Producer: Maryann Tanedo.
 

 
Yes You Can Dance

Link Posted 2/22/2009 at 12:14 PM

From YouAreSoFamous.com, their latest creation is ObaMadonna. Eat your heart out, Shepard Fairey. Next, I'd like to see Madonna's head on Obama's beach body. More form Boy Culture after the Jump, Boy Culture

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 East Village Boy of the Week
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This week’s East Village Boy of the Week is Rajan, from New York Photographed for EVB by Mckenzie James

 
 Dinners with the Devil
Michael Lucas, America's most successful adult gay film entrepreneur, actor, and director—on love, lust, and living. Today's topic: Never aging, gracefully.
Interview Posted 2/22/2009 at 11:51 AM
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He's sitting in the darkest booth in Niko's, one of Manhattan's oldest Italian restaurants. When I walk in, only half of his face is lit by the flicker of a short glowing dinner table candle. Hand-stitched deep blue thread can barely be seen on the lapel of his formal dinner jacket, but I notice it and it shows off his irrepressibly fashionable presence. As always for our dinners, Michael stands up with chivalry and greets me with a slow, warm handshake before we take to the table and the conversation begins.—N.B.

"Several of my readers have written in asking how they can stay hot in bed after 35, into their 40s, and 50s," I tell him. "Is it all abs and ass or is it a state of mind?"

He grins thinly. Then I ask, "When can a man stop trying to be the 'hot young guy' and embrace his age?" Finish reading after the Jump, Dinners with the devil

 
 
 
 Gays And Their Cell phones (I-pods, I-phones, Blackberrys – you get the drift): Part I
Social commentary Posted 2/20/2009 at 7:14 PM by  R.P. Andrews

Sure, today cell phones are even used by homeless people (“Hey, Jimmy, there’s a shitload of aluminum cans in the dumpster next to Mickey Dee’s!”). But I think the guy who invented the cell phone had to be gay because if you’re gay and aren’t carrying one on your cock ring, the powers-to-be just might revoke your homo-license. In the bars, in the baths, in the supermarkets, on the beach, in the gym, in bed, between fucks, during fucks, we gays just can’t live without our cells. About the only place in local gaydom where they’re strictly forbidden is at local sex club's like  Slammers  and  The Clubhouse . Some of the nasty boys were using their C’s to take pix to send back to family and friends or, better yet, use to jerk off over in church Sunday morning. 

My cell phone Kodak moment was the young hot guy I spotted chatting away on his cell while bobbing in the ocean at Sebastian Beach , Lauderdale’s gay hangout in the sun. I looked at him like he was nuts – he just smiled demurely back and went on chit-chatting. I was praying for some big wave to knock it out of his hand or get it wet (can you get electrocuted by a wet cell??) but no luck.  

I hate cells and rarely use my humble, very ungay TracPhone (I have it in my car for emergencies or for that occasional convenience call when I’m lost looking for a trick’s address because the fuck gave me a make-believe one). You see, when I was back in NYC as a senior hospital PR exec handling media, I had to practically carry my cell phone in the shower. You become so jaded in this business that when someone gets shot and lingers on, you wish they just died so all those three o’clock in the morning calls from the media would end. That happened one night when a cop was shot by some lowlife and I had $150 theatre tickets to some hot show whose name has since been lost in my memory bank. When I got the beep from the hospital that he had died, I spent the break between acts out on West 44th Street calling a dozen media outlets with the news. One pain in the ass.  

So what’s wrong with cell phones? More next week

 
 Latex Ball 2006 - Javier Ninja - Hands Performance
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 The Care and Feeding of Your Homosexual- A User's Guide for Straights
Social commentary Posted 2/20/2009 at 9:46 AM
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Last week it happened again. I was at a dinner party at The Standard, downtown L.A.'s hipster-by-way-of-Ikea boutique hotel and what was originally supposed to be an intimate group of four had become, by the time I showed up fashionably late, a massive table of sixteen, thanks to the hostess. The Hostess is of a certain type you might recognize; casually affluent, martini-swilling, in a chiffon dress by a designer whose name is unpronounceable. She's Carrie Bradshaw. She's Holly Golightly. She's Julia Roberts in My Best Friend's Wedding. She's Willamina Slater. And fifteen minutes after I sit down, she's sitting in my lap, preventing me from grabbing a bite of my Kobe carpaccio, which I dare not eat lest it wind up on the dress, which is now rubbing up against my nose. Ten minutes later, she's insisting I unzip the back of the dress and examine her tattoos. Another ten minutes and she's telling me how we're going to be friends forever and jokes how this must be the most action I've ever had with a girl.

"Not true!", I tell here. "There was a girl in college who would make me touch her breasts when she got drunk." She laughs and starts bouncing up and down on my knee, grinding her pelvis into mine while regaling the guests about her latest European business trip. Inside, I am having a straight panic. Continued after the Jump, The Care and Feeding of Your Homosexual- A User's Guide for Straights

 
 Lady Gaga Pet Shop Boys Remix-Free!
News Posted 2/19/2009 at 8:06 PM
AOL Music: Lady Gaga joined the Pet Shop Boys onstage [last] night at the BRIT Awards 2009 at London’s Earls Court to perform 'What Have I Done To Deserve This?', the song PSB originally recorded with Dusty Springfield more than 20 years ago. Pet Shop Boys received the Outstanding Contribution to Music Award at the ceremony and Lady Gaga flew in from her European tour for the night to celebrate with them.

Lady Gaga's performance was a thank you to Pet Shop Boys for their remix of her track Eh Eh (Nothing Else I Can Say), which is available as a free download exclusively to AOL Music UK.

Get the free Download after the Jump, Lady GaGa Free at AOL Music

 
 Bastard Life Readers Prefer Arms Over Abs
News Posted 2/19/2009 at 4:53 PM
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Holding strong. In a poll of 4,351 male BastardLife readers, 58% of you said it's not the abdominal muscles that arouse you, its buff arms and that v-shaped set of muscles along side the abdomen that you live for. A remarkably small 28% of you voted for the abs as the thing that "turns me on most when he's inside of me and I'm on my back watching them get a workout." The rest of you were champions for the chest, citing, "I need something to grab onto—or rest my head on after we're done making love." Check out more after the Jump, Bastard Life

 
 Edilson Nascimento in DNA
News Posted 2/19/2009 at 4:28 PM
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 Boys, Boys, Boys
Inside New York's newest art-porn empire
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Richard is incredibly attractive, so having him in my bedroom for four-and-a-half hours is nothing I would say no to,” says David, 23, of Williamsburg. “He’s a really fantastic guy, really educated, not a skeezeball in any way.” For the slight, blond David—who hangs out at bars like Eastern Bloc, Sugarland and Metropolitan— meeting a guy like Richard doesn’t happen every day. But Richard wasn’t there to sleep with David. He was there to take his picture for East Village Boys, the art and porn website he runs.

“I don’t work out and I don’t really watch what I eat,” David says. “When they actually wanted to shoot me and I saw who I’d be put up next to, it was complete 100 percent ego. If they want me on the site next to all these other model boys, I’ll do it. It’s kind of a ‘fuck you’ to all the other gay sites.” Indeed, despite the site’s focus on a different look than most other gay websites, David was flattered because it was also a site that he himself would read. “There are not too many places online or in print where you can get really good investigative work or see local artists’ work.” Continue reading after the Jump, Inside New York's newest art-porn empire

 
 Make the Cut?
Advice Posted 2/17/2009 at 3:26 PM by  R.P. Andrews

Q: My boyfriend Larry and I have been together for three months and are very much in love. We have so much in common and feel really committed to one another. We like the same video games, the same action movies, even the same porn stars. And, of course, the sex is great. Just one thing, though, has started to become a sore point between us. You see, he’s cut and I’m not, and he’s been pushing me to go under the knife so even our dicks would look like twins (We’re both the same size, girth – you know what I mean). Larry says he’d even pay for the operation. What do you think?

A: Hey, why not? And when this three month love of the century is over in another four weeks and the next guy you fall for likes them uncut, you can always have reattachment surgery. Just keep whatever they cut off in one of those special Glade bags in your freezer so it doesn’t get freezer burn. Or, even better, you can donate it as a charitable contribution and a decent tax write-off (IRS goes by the inches), to the Foreskin Wannabes of America, those guys who carry weights on their cut dicks all day just to get what you already have.  

Seriously, shouldn’t this cut/uncut preference have come up during or after your first fuck? Or while you guys were negotiating in the bar or on the web? Remember one thing, getting sliced when you’re a itty bitty bambino is no big deal, but for adult men circumcision can be one fucken pain in the dick. If he loves you – really, really loves you – he won’t let a few inches of skin stand in the way of a lifetime commitment.

 

 Alec in Wonderland: The Looking Glass Revisited

Social Commentary Posted 2/16/2009 at 5:26 PM by  R.P. Andrews

Unless you’re being kept (lucky bastard!), you have your work-a-day world and your “out-to-score” life. Same person, two personas. And isn’t funny how things that are considered totally gauche in straight circles are prized in gaydom? And how we shift gears to accommodate both? 

In straight life, you’ve got that three piece suit and fucken tie (that never fits right), or if you’re fortunate to work in a more casual environment, a polo shirt that you open only part way not to show too much skin or chest hair.  

In gay life, you can’t wait to tear the shirt off and show as much skin as the law will allow, ass crack and all.  And then some …. 

In straight life you make sure to shake your dick real good after you take a whiz, so – heavens - you don’t stain your pants. You want to be the center of attention at a board meeting for other more professional reasons.  

Out on to the town, who wears underwear?  And the bigger the wet spot, the hotter you look. Ditto with that semi-hard-on.  

A close shave for that 9 am Monday meeting is just expected. A two day growth on a Saturday night and, man, do you look rough and ready and ready to fuck. 

And deodorant - well, you’ll get a dirty look on the subway on a July rush hour if you aren’t  wearing any, but come the bar or bath house, deo is a definite no-no. After all, he wants to sniff and lick your armpits for the sweat, stupid, not the Calvin Klein.   

And gals, I’m sure you wanna ditch that bra and panties and eyeliner as quick as you can too, for a scrubbed down look, halter or T shirt and 501’s with a front fly, right?

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

 

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